Hey, I'm just wondering if I could get some advice. I wouldn't say I'm great with girls, I can make them laugh but I end up just becoming *friends*. I'm guessing it's because I'm so bad at making that first move. I enjoy being in a relationship but it's hard for me to find a girl that I have that connection with that I like. Anyways I just got out of a 1 year relationship and I can't seem to get my stuff together in my head. I have issues approaching girls. For example there's tons of girls in my college who're pretty cute and I would definitely like to kick it up a notch. I'm just curious if you guys had any advice for a guy who's pretty shy about talking to girls. Also some girls think I'm just on the rebound and are kind of avoiding it right now. I've had a few dates in the last week and they've all ended pretty well but they're all girls I've met through work and i talk to on a regular basis. Thanks for any help guys.

Approach more women? There isnt really much else you can do.

Approach more girls is right.

Don't let approach anxiety get the best of you. Everyone gets nervous when approaching a set, but just think, the worst thing that can happen is that they aren't interested, and if that's the case you walk away, no harm done.

Don't have the end product of getting laid in your head when approaching, just approach with the goal of having a conversation. You know you're good in conversation by making girls laugh, remind yourself of this.

And the main thing to avoid the friend zone, in my opinion, is to kino, get her used to your touch. Verbally I wouldn't do much, it's better to be spontaneous than talk sexually. But one thing to avoid in conversation is her and other guys. Don't ask who she's interested in, you heard she hooked up with some guy, etc.

All just my opinions, hope it helps!

~Deebo

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