So yesterday I broke the contact with my ex, in a nice way we ended things, talked, and told her it was over..

She cheated on me, and did me wrong many times..

Then she came begging for us, to give it a new chance, and she would `change`

I had enough of her, and her shit..

I dont know what to do..
Feel like telling her, how big slut she is, and how much i dont care about her..

But is it smart? Is it better, to just leave the peacefull break up/no contact as it is..

Or is it, more style, more alpha, to put her in her place ?

*just feels like, i let her off easy, the softy way.
Although if I contact her again, it might seem weak..

You've done everything perfectly. Don't contact her, it's gonna drive her nuts. Once a liar always a liar, if a chick cheats she's out.

Yeah i agree... The silent SPAM doesn't burn the bridge. Keepin in contact with her will just give her the jollies she's after... Instead focus your attention on other girls. When you're hookin up with other girls and you trully don't care that much for her then you can revisit her if you want...and she'll be like putty in your hands!

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If she ever calls on you again pleading to give it another shot, pick up the phone, don't let her get too many words in - just let her know:

"I don't have time for you and your pathetic immaturity - sort your life out"

Don't shout.. Don't stammer, just finish by hanging up.

Women take break ups differently to men. If it is the man's fault the relationship is comprimised - the woman will question her choice in men, her ability to spot a cheating man, and worst of all - she'll spread the word, being crippling for social proof, especially if your friends and hers are close.

Now if she cheats on you, she'll reason with herself as to why it happened.. come up with some rational conclusion.

Don't all her a slag or anything like that.. it just gives her more reason why to resent you.. you want to make her feel a crushing emptiness by letting her know the said above.

Last time I did this, the girl still cried in the middle of the night for a few weeks.. Infomation fed to me from her friend (who I was seeing - and disgusted that she would cheat on me..)

-Illusionist-

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"They were right when they said "just be yourself" they just never told you what "self" to be.." - Gunwitch

Dude,you handled it well!

The world does many turns,one day you may be dating a new friend of hers and she can't really say anything negative about you. The most remembered moment in a relationship to EVERY woman is the break up.

NEVER let any woman get the best of you cuz it may come to bite you in the ass one day.

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you did the right thing