Ok so my friend has been dating this girl for like 2 months. He said he tried to get with her recently, but she said she wasn't ready. He told me he is willing to wait a little longer. So my question is how long should a guy have to wait? Like anything more than a year is just unreasonable i'm sure any guy would move on if they had to wait that long.

Dude this rly depends on allot of things.
Is the girl a virgin?
How shy is she?
How much they still flirt?
The age of the girl?
...

If i was your friend i would set up a date at my place and do something like watch a movie... then do some KINO,
makeout,etc... Try to turn her on.

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First in last out, Sappers lead the way!

He should wait as long as he cares about the girl more than about getting laid.

FREEZE OUTS ARE FOR A REASON!!!

If in the next month he doesn't get laid...he better be in love with that girl for him not to move on!

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-TOAST

it all depends on the girl, every girl is differnt. it also depends on YOUR game. a good way to help and note is to use lots of kino, always escolate. its always better to over escolate then under. because u can appolgize for what u did, not for what u didnt do.

calibrate and learn! find out for yourself.

A guy shouldn't have to wait longer than 3 dates for sex. Some girls it can be stretched to 4 or 5, but 3 should be the general rule. NEVER more than 5.

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Willy Wonka's Adventures

I think it all comes down to age and maturity. Girls my age aren't usually like that in my area. and they usually don't consider a date a date half the time.

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First in last out, Sappers lead the way!

How old are you?

I sometimes feel like young people shouldn't be asking questions on a board like this. There's a place for mistakes and experimentation. Not everything has one answer.

Quality of the time spent than the quantity is what matters, there isnt a FIXED/SET TIME persay that a guy should wait. You could have sex within 2 hrs of meeting or say 200 hrs.

Now to your question, it depends how old are you guys, do you have a strong cultural/religious taboo attached to sex, does the girl have any geniune issues that hold her back. There are few really good threads in here that gets into the details of things like 'the girl should know that you'd stick around, the social value of the guy is imp etc etc..' How to make a girl feel like you guys are a couple and then kino escalate, break through LMRs etc.

Again the quantity of time is not important here. IN a years time iether the girl would have broken off with him or he would still be stuck with no sex if he cant do the right things to trigger emotions.