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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:23 pm 
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hello

I've been reading couple of book,alot of articles and I've learnt very useful things.
my problem is how the hell I implement this on the sets?I can't talk to women and then think in my mind what I should say next or which stage I'm.the conversation will be stuck if I think ah she said me this so I need to say this etc...
how you the experienced ones deal with that on the Beginning?


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 4:43 pm 
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This is probably one of the most common sticking points for people learning to game. I know I still suffer from this sticking point.

The solution? Stop seeking perfection. Most people, when they approach a set, believe that they need the set to be perfect. And they tell themselves that they won't approach a set unless they have the perfect approach predetermined in their minds. You have to realize that there is no such thing as perfection.

So how do you get past this sticking point? Approach anyway, and just go with the flow. Do what you feel needs to be done and say what you feel works as the set goes on. The important thing is to be in an extrinsic state, which is much easier said than done. Don't think about what to say at all. Think about what the other person says - in other words, be present. The words will come to you naturally.

Once you have finished with the set and finished a night of approaches, it's time to learn from what you did that night. Go through every approach you did and think about what you did wrong and what you did right. If you are unsure, post the approaches here and ask for specific advice from us, and we can help you through the approaches line for line, word for word. We are here for help and guidance.

Hope this helped.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 7:13 pm 
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The information is all there! Read it again! :)

The point of using the form of the MM is that it gives you stuff to say. You learn to talk to women!

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