Hi guys.

I have read some of pua material but I'm not very experienced.
I'm usually very shy but last week ( last saturday ) I was drunk and I met a girl 7/10 at the disco. I started making jokes, we had fun and I've tried to kiss her 30 minutes later but she said that there were friends of her ex-boyfriend and she was not confortable so she gave her number, we exchanged some messages and we went to coffee yesterday ( wednesday ).

At the coffee she was a completely different person ( I know this is normal and usually happens ) but..

At the coffee she started to talk about girls that go out and are sluts and she was not like that, she disarmed me in first 15 minutes and then she started talking about her life, friends etc etc and I was like 2 hours listening her doing "small talk or shit talk" and everytime I try to talk about that night she changed conversation to "shit talk themes".
When she was leaving I tried to kiss her but she didnt accept my kiss and then left.

So... why do a girl go to a 2nd date to tell the guy she "is not going to kiss him" and then starts to talk talk and talk like it was the last day of her life?

Maybe she was trying to test me or something like that but I really cant understand what happened...it seemed like she only wanted to chat with me during 2 hours :/


Do you guys know if this is normal? I lack experience unfortunately..

Dude chicks talk allot, best thing to do in this situation is not force it and try to arrange some more dates... thats if you rly like this girl. if you are looking for a one night stand move on.

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It seemed I needed to take 4/5 more coffees to get her..but I wanted to get her in the first coffee so I was like...stucked.

Do you think I should have tried some kinda kino or something while she was talking or it just probably wouldnt work in this situation?

This kind of thing happen to me like 1 time in a year so I'm really very dissapointed but I can't realize what I did wrong or what should I have done to get her while she was shit talking :/

She needed to see if you were a real man (this isn't conscious). You failed.