Is passive disinterest sometimes not an IOD but a shit test? Reason I am asking is as follows:

About a month ago, I met this girl, she is a proper 11!!! OK, so when I met her, the first night she gave me the incorrect phone number. I saw her a while later and ignored her. (Dont bust their balls, shows low value) She came to me later that night and started a conversation again but everytime I get her to open up a little she then shows passive disinterest. I then punish her by ignoring her or doing my own thing. I have become friends with the people in her social circle so the other night while saying goodbye, (she was showing passive disinterest again) I hugged all her friends goodbye and was quite nasty as I extended a hand as if I wanted to shake her hand. This move got to her as she then pulled me closer to hug me. I did embrace her but a friendly hug with a pat on the back.

What got to me is that she broke out in tears and told me to stop playing emotional games because she likes me... Now, first of all, this was the deal breaker... I don't do drama queens. But what wqas up with this. She was showing passive disinterest for about 2 weeks and then burst into tears when I didn't give her attention... And what bums me even more is the fact that when I try to call or text her I get no answer and get no reply.

Hope you guys can clarify this for me...

Ciao

People and feelings change. Maybe she was afraid of showing you that she cared. Maybe she couldnt figure out what you were all about. Maybe she wanted to like you but as soon as she thought that you liked her you did some kind of routine that made her unsure again.

If you are gonna play you need to feel congruent.

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