I have been thinking about things alot recently and how my life is and where i am and it has occurred to me even though i have more friends and know more people than i have at any point in my life i have never felt so lonely at the same time at times everything can feel so empty I have be come disillusioned with things and people in my life i just feel like i am going no where and cannot get to the next stage in life and everyday i have nothing to come home too i just wish i had someone who i could call mine and we could be happy i was wanting to know how i could get out of this rut take things to the next level perhaps find that special lady.

You've got to be happy being single first! I found a great article on this:

http://socialseductions.com/be-happy-be ... tines-day/

Hope that helps

Is that article saying that if i want to meet the right woman rather than go out Sargeing or whatever I should focus on my personal development? Something that article does not say is how do i develop as person what can i do in order to grow?

hmm maybe. my interpretation was that it's kinda like on the airplane that you gotta put on your own oxygen mask before you assist anyone else.

*shrug*