No now you are confusing the nice guy with a loser. The difference between a gentleman and a loser is that a loser gives up his power for a girl and a gentleman shares his leftover charisma.

Street, not really. Yes, caring about yourself will bring you a lot of things but when you have advanced beyond that point you no longer need it. You can care about others because you dont have anything to prove. Loving yourself is not the same thing as being ego. A person who is ego tries to get stuff for himself and then helps others. A true alpha male knows that no matter how much he helps others he will still be the alpha male. No worries there, he simply can afford it.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn