hello
just to say- i have a great long term boyfriend personality
thats what all my closest girl friends say
i have great charm and charisma but i never pull at parties
i do peacocking and loads of routines
i am lacking in confidence when it even gets to the kissing stage and i always shy away from it urghhhh
but to say i am not lacking confidence socially if u know what i mean
so please help

Im in Manchester - drop me a message some time mate!

Seem to be a few Manchunians about. Used to live in the Saddleworth area just outside. Cool city and maybe hope to move back some day.

I live near/go to Manchester myself, It's a fantastic city. It's also FULL of chicks - Of which I dont take nearly enough advantage of SPAM, but hopefully that will soon change!

As for your question, Dodger..

I can relate with the stuff about shying away from the kiss. I remember many occasions in my past where I've been at the perfect moment to K-close and not done so due to nerves.

My first thought would be to suggest some dutch courage! But the real problem, It sounds to me - Is you Kino escalation. As most of us will know.. the purpose of Kino is to get the girl comfortable enough to eventually kiss. Maybe this concept could work both ways. Try having plenty of Kino before any kissing.. not just for HER comfort. But also yours.

Hope this helps.

hey guys, there's a lot of people from Manchester here aint there haha.

I know the feeling of girls saying great boyfriend material all too well. The only problem is I also know the term "just not my type" all to well also RARGH!