so i met this chick 2 fridays ago at a party. the day after the party, she adds me on facebook and we start to connect. i got her number, and we started texting for a couple days, then i asked her out. She lives in a different town so the only way i have communication with her is through fb or texting. So i took her to get pizza, then we went back to her house to watch a movie. After the movie i hugged her goodbye and then left. I did not go in for the kiss, one reason is because her dad was in the other room and also because i wanted her to anticipate for a second date. Let me remind you im in high school and am new to pua.

I was wondering if i blew it with not kissing her or does she really want to see me again because i left her without a kiss.

and also what should i do on the second date if there is one, ice skating or a movie?

i think you should of have kissed her! cus there's a danger right now that you will fall into the friend zone. If you get a second date, then go ice-skating or do some other active activity and during that kiss close her.

thx man for the reply.

alright, so i just finished talkin to her on fb, we had little convo, i was telling her how i couldnt sleep from the horror film she showed me at her house. i was teasing her and stuff, then i told her " i think u owe me my 2 hours back from showing me that movie , maybe we should go ice skating sum time ". then bam she never texted back. im thinkin of just waitin like a week to see if she will text me back or should i just let this chick go?

You set up a second date waaay to quickly and therefore putting too much pressure on her.

You should have waited a few days before doing that. And even then, you shouldn't have asked her out directly. A better way of putting it would be Hey, I was thinking about going ice-skating next ____. You could tag along if you want

In that way, you're showing that it doesn't matter if she comes or not. It's her loss and you're anyways gonna go ice-skating. So if she says "no", just say "Haha you're so boring! Fine, I'll just ask someone else xD"

Once again - you're giving her the impression that you don't care.

Unreactive = Attractive

Good luck!

thx zentrode

also, wat should i do now, should i not talk to her for a couple days, or should i wait til she texts me?

I'd wait until Tuesday, Wednesday at the latest and basically use what Zentrode said. Tell her you're going ice skating (whenever your planning on going) and that she can tag along if she wants too. Keep us posted!!

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k guyz thx ill keep u posted

Alright this blows, i texted and got no response. Maybe i should just let her go.

Yeah, forget about her. Go find someone else

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You're done ... Understand that that very first date she is basically screenin you as her future boyfriend... For god sakes guys ... When a girl agrees to go on a date with you she's attracted to you ... Kiss her. Her dad was in the other room! She was probably sat there thinkin wen is this guy gonna make a move on me? First date equals first kiss equals the beginning me the rest of her life with you.

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You're done ... Understand that that very first date she is basically screenin you as her future boyfriend... For god sakes guys ... When a girl agrees to go on a date with you she's attracted to you ... Kiss her. Her dad was in the other room! She was probably sat there thinkin wen is this guy gonna make a move on me? First date equals first kiss equals the beginning me the rest of her life with you.

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