Ok so things with a HB8 didn't go well last day (txt) :

Me : Hey! What about (club name) this saturday?

Her : Lol this place isn't the best one to score. Razz

Me : Yes it's possible I never went to this place.

Her : It really sucks you shouldn't go!

Me : What other places are hot satuday? And don't tell me (club name)!!!

Her : Omg I hate this club too!! But I am not sure if I can go out saturday.


From there I didn't answer back. I see that she lost interest but I don't think it's all lost because we really had fun when I met her. What should I do? Ignore her for a couple of days?

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No one have any idea?? :/

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

how much intrest do you feel she has in you, i.e how much attraction do you feel youve generated?

Enough to invite her to a party but not enough to go on a date with her.

I danced with her and we had a lot of kino. At the party where I met her she was really into me. I was surrounded by a group of friends with some randoms chicks who came and I was talking to a lot of people. So everytime a girl was arround me she was coming to introduce herself as my bestfriend (she is not...I met her this night). This is due to the alcohol but still at the end of night she asked me to add her on facebook because I negged her saying "we can't be best friend if we are not friend on facebook."

I seriously think I screwed up when I txted her...I looked needy when I asked her where are the places to go out (she may thinks that we will go wherever she wants).

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

i dont actually think you did a whole lot wrong, and you seem to have built a fair amount of attraction.

i would say freeze out for a couple of days it wont do any harm and as this is the first time she has given up the chance to spend time with you a freeze out would be good.

if she hasent contacted you within the 2 days run some txt game, thers a really good thread on ideas for txt game in the forum somewhere.

go to the club on saturday(the one you origionaly intended to go to) this will be great as it wiil give you a great oppertunitity as you can say to her later 'that club is actualy preety hot, hey, you can come with me next time i go...you dident like it before but youve never been there with me/if you think you can keep up' whatever you wanna say, personaly id go for somthing cocky funny

after the freeze out and txt game(if its needed) you should have built up more attraction then you can arrange something, e.g that club you origionaly mentioned.