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My question for you is isn't this type of game straying away from the mentality that you just do what you want in the moment because you are congruent with your true self and are present in the moment?
What I am getting at is like instead of me thinking hey I need to do something that is more comfort or hey I need to do something that is more rapport or hey its time to qualify or do something structured ruins the connection for me.
Aw I see where you're coming from but this is not a step by step structure to get a K-Close or anything, this is just stating the formula on how attraction is psychologically made. Basically what AFCAdam is saying is that to build attraction you need (Comfort - Rapport) + Qualification and Sexual Escalation. There is no step by step guide everything is just mixed. There's no need to constantly think "better break rapport" he is just saying to do both equivalently. If you indulge in a conversation with a HB then just avoid too much rapport breaking or comfort building, once attraction is made (through the method) then go for the number or k-close using whatever line you like.
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