right guys heres the story, met this girl out one night, done a bit of texting with her, stayed at hers one night, (didnt sleep with her) and then the next week i took her out on a date.
anyway on the date, she basically tells me that shes not lookin for anything serious, and wasnt really up for the date in the first place. (as if i needed to feel any more uncomfortable).
(this wasnt a reflection on me by the way, just that she wasnt up for the date!)
i take her back to mine and we just chill and chat and kiss for a bit and then she heads home.

anyway, this girl is really attractive, and ive set my next goal of kissing her the next night i see her out. Question is, how should i go about this??

i was thinking of going down the route of getting her to think that she had doomed the date from the off-set, by being real negative about it, and that no matter what i did, it wold never have worked out well.

have any of you guys ever been in this situation, how did you's go about it?

cheers in advance lads

Nothing works on them like Jealousy.

I have female cousins who are total b***hes when it comes to dating guys--but they trust me and occasionally put me in a Dr Phil role --YAWN

Anyway they have told me that for them and all the girls they know---if they see a guy who they used to be with or was once interested in them with another girl it drives them pure jealous---EVEN if they werent into him at all when they had their chance.

now that you know--use it

LOL!

You want me it's too bad
You want what you cant have
search what you can't find
Run when you can't hide

lol I should be a rapper! I spit the truth!

Lucky dats a good song man--i might use it as a mantra

hahaha go ahead!

yea mate, i was planning on going down that line anyway, going for the social proof etc.

i saw her 2day when i was in town and we both got off the bus at the same stop. we didnt talk about anything in particular, just what we'd got up to this week, basically just shit talk. Felt real awkward but i dont think this changes anything. next time I see her out in a club, im just gonna go with what i was originally planning to do.

Personally I think you should stay away from jealousy tactics.

Here's why:

If she's not interested you wasted your time. If she's interested you still wasted your time.

I don't like playing those kind of sneaky games that, let's be honest, get you nowhere. Besides, leave the jealous tactics over to insecure chodes that need a sign to proceed.

What would you suggest then?

Superman--it will work--you know it will---if you dont it wont get you nowhere it will get you worse---''lets just be friends'' ''your a nice guy...but''---know what im saying

you know im right

I agree with Jav here. Trying to make people jealous is just fucked up in all forms of the game.

I've had some Irish visiters - sisters (triplets ) over here from Dublin. Man those chicks knew how to have fun. can you say WILD - It was an awesome 2 weeks and i ended up with with some new found Irish in my blood Are they all like that? Anyways my point is - Don't waste your time around girls that are full of shit. There are PLENTY hot birds out there, don't limit yourself.

I say set-up something for yourself (not to make her jealous) give her a shout and tell her to come along, if she declines then tough shit FOR HER, you still go out and party hard either way. Now if she comes along, show her how to have fun then take her back to your place which she is allready familiar with btw and fuck her brains out!

my 2 cents

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Personality can open doors, but only character can keep them open

Women are emotional individuals, and so, what they seek in a relationship is emotional satisfaction. A range of emotions, whether good or bad, especially in the beginning of a relationship! Saying that using jealousy is bad means this:

-pivots are bad cause they cause envy and jealousy between women
-negs are bad because it's insulting.

is this true??

You're probably never gonna put a girl on love lockdown if you don't play the emotional cards. [anger, joy, jealousy, etc]= confusion and deep love

If you want to be a man desired by many women, somewhere you have to make them compete for you. this means there's gonna be jealousy between themselves. like a vicious circle, this jealousy will make them compete even more, and want you even more, get more jealous and then compete even more, and be more n more jealous, and love you for it!

And if your woman is jealous, she's probably gonna try 2 compete too, and want you even more. That's why jealousy is not evil.

Besides, it's not like they're not tryna make us jealous too! the game goes both ways.