Hello everybody, I'm an 18 year old (shy) guy from Amsterdam.
I found this site after i read "'the game' from Neil Strauss allthough i don't know if this is the same network he is using in his book.

I always was an outstander and the chubby kid on school.
at age 15 +- i started looking better because i grew alot and i didn't looked that fat anymore.
at the moment I am 1.93 Meters long and 105 kilo's in weight and makin progress with losing weight

I never was good with girls because I'm pretty shy, I once did kiss a girl after my friend talked to the girl and asked her if she wanted to kiss me, she agreed and I really wanted to kiss her, but still i refused because I was shy and somehow afraid of people talking about it and whatsoever. but after my friend gave me a look like "don't be a f-ing moron" i did kiss her and i pretty much liked it.

that was half a year ago and in between nothing happend until I met a girl (probably the most pretty girl i've ever seen) at my work and I fell in love with her.
I asked her out, she agreed but a few days later she told me that she allready had a boyfriend, I told her on hyves (similar to Myspace) that i already had the idea such a beatiful girl would have a boyfriend.
she didn't reply that comment.
and the next day I noticed that she probably broke up with her boyfriend. and now I have no idea what the situation is and i really need a tactic for the next time we work together

If somebody knows what i can do best to make this girl attracted to me PLEASE tell

I hope i can learn alot from you other guys on how to be comfortable with women, because I'm sick of being lonely and being the shy type.

I hope you guys understand my (bad) English

Greetz, Martin