we have been talking on the phone non-stop for 2 weeks and we both dig eachother a lot. for some reason there is a massive connection and we have had a couple arguments already. anyway, she broke up with a guy a while back who she is still in "love" with . he treated her like shit (of course) . but now she is basically sayin she doesnt want to do anything about us. we got into an argument about it last night and i say aright im done and i sign off of msn. then seh texts me sayin why do we have to do this? and proceeds to call me and we talk and flirt for 4 hours until we fell asleep (literally) . now we havent talked all day. my question is. should i let her come to me? cuz thats how i feel. shes the one who said she doesnt know so why should i bother to continue talking to her right?

Do you still like her? If yes, then, go talk to her. If not, move onto someone else.

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just my 2cents... he saying shes still in love with this guy and the way i see it , shes using that as her out to use you as her diary, talk till you fall asleep, be able to harmless flirt while go out and be fuckin someone else. hell ive even used the "im still in love with my ex" excuse to get out of any situation where the girl wants a real relationship.

id cut this one loose, no offence though. if you dont want to and really feel like ur getting ahead, you have to stop these girly "talk til you fall asleep" bs and get her to be in ur bed pillow talking until you fall asleep