| Hi, I'm new here. I've joined to ask for some advice from you guys on how to turn my tutor into girlfriend. I know her for about 6 wks, seeing each other twice a wk for classes.
She comes from an eastern bloc, male dominant society but has lived in the west for about 10 years.
She's my language tutor, I'm pretty sure she likes me as she throws in things when we're translating like "She likes him", "She's not going home tonight", "She likes big sausages!" , etc.
She's comfortable around me, tells me stories about her life (things like sharing a bed with another girl, etc. which I presume are geared to make me think of her sexually). We laugh and generally have a good time but I don't know how to bring this to the next level.
So it started out with her making all the efforts at flirting and me trying my best at active disinterest. She showed what I thought were obvious IOIs, leaning over to get things out of her bag so I get a good look at her ass and exposed skin at hips, instead of lifting the bag on the table, blushing slightly when we talk about relationship/sex topics, laughing at any kind of joke i make, smiling a lot, and other physical indicators.
Flirtyness on her part was ramping up slightly each time so I kept at not displaying sexual interest but making her laugh and joking with her. I text her to say not to eat before next class, and she flaked (but met me later that evening, colder at the start but then back to flirty/laughy behaviour but not near as intense as before).
The first problem I see is that we have zero kino going on. We meet in cafes for lessons and sit across a table from each other. How can I ramp up kino in this situation in a natural manner?
Is the flaking possibly because of lack of kino only or do I need to display some sexual/relationship oriented interest in her at this stage? Should I have mentioned lunch date (i called it a fieldtrip) while with her rather than in a message (which I thought was a casual approach)?
Thanks for reading and I look forward to any advice you guys can offer.
Paddy
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