Hey guys,

Right off the bat, I'm going to say that I'm relatively new to this pickup stuff. I've been reading up for a while, but I'm in highschool so I don't get a lot of opportunity to push the boundaries.

There's this girl, pretty much a 6, who is in love with me. No game, no nothing. She just loves me. She's blushing around me, buying me tons of candy, everything. Now, this girl has a friend, probably an HB9. Gorgeous. I've been causally flirting with her, but she's always a little hesitant, a little held-back.

Anyone see a solution? I need to get this girl off my back. I know what some of you are going to say, just move on, and I have no trouble doing that. I just want the uglier one gone!

That's a delicate situation. It really depends on you how to deal with this.

If it were me, I wouldn't want to hurt the hb6 any more than necessary. I would make the HB6 a friend. Let her know that she is in the friend zone. There is some aspect of your personality that is stimulating some repressed need so the oneitus she has for you probably wont go away without some pro help. However ... if she becomes a friend you can use her to DHV you constantly to the HB9. She will complain that you "only want to be friends" to the hb9 and that will make your value much higher. At the same time letting her know that it has been agreed upon to be just friends. The hb6 may even try to help you get with her friends in a feeble attempt to prove she accepts the friendship. I wouldn't try to progress anything with the hb9 unless she starts it on some level. But pay attention ... these types of plays require time and patience.

Byron

Alright, step one's out of the way. I friend-zoned her tonight (really gently) and she's cool. That just felt like the right thing to do. Now she's still talking to me and things aren't weird (though she is a little more awkward, but I can handle that). So I'm gonna take it easy for a bit.

Problem more or less resolved. I'm lined up for the next shot. Thanks!

Interesting situation
I wanna see how this plays out

DAMMMMM dude same thing happend to me but i fuckd it up SOOOO badly!!!


heres what happend to me. i was rely rely rely good freinds with this girl, lets call her 6. she HATED this other girl, lets call her 8. i liked girl 8 a good deal, then i found out girl 6 hates her so bad and if i start stuff with 8 then 6 will leave me and wont b friends with me, we were like bff and i didnt wanna lose her. this was back in my AFC days. anyway, i find out girl 8 likes me (BTW, the numbers are what the girls are, so 8 is HB8, hope i cleared confusion) and i dint wanna lost 6 so i asked 6 out and told her i wasnt even considering 8. 6 says yes, tells 8 i hate her so i have no chance with 8 in the future, then 6 dumps me becaus she wants o b friends.... afterwards i decided id just talk to 8, she wanted nothing to do with me, the damage was done. i lost a good friend who turned on me, and a pretty hot, and popular date...

learn from my mistakes

-Philos

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DAMMMMM dude same thing happend to me but i fuckd it up SOOOO badly!!!


heres what happend to me. i was rely rely rely good freinds with this girl, lets call her 6. she HATED this other girl, lets call her 8. i liked girl 8 a good deal, then i found out girl 6 hates her so bad and if i start stuff with 8 then 6 will leave me and wont b friends with me, we were like bff and i didnt wanna lose her. this was back in my AFC days. anyway, i find out girl 8 likes me (BTW, the numbers are what the girls are, so 8 is HB8, hope i cleared confusion) and i dint wanna lost 6 so i asked 6 out and told her i wasnt even considering 8. 6 says yes, tells 8 i hate her so i have no chance with 8 in the future, then 6 dumps me becaus she wants o b friends.... afterwards i decided id just talk to 8, she wanted nothing to do with me, the damage was done. i lost a good friend who turned on me, and a pretty hot, and popular date...

learn from my mistakes

-Philos

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No Tomorrow