| I've recently discovered how significant social circles feature when one wants to progress PUAing towards the relationship stage. Regarding the girl I've been progressing with lately, she is the one chasing me, and we've established several dates; truth is, I should ask her out soon. Nevertheless, I can see a potential obstacle in the distance, and I want to avoid it, so, I've come for your help.
The major error I've made thus far, is isolating her from my college experience, initially I wanted to maintain our dates outside the college context, 'don't eat where you squat'. However, I've overdone this technique as I reach a point where our relationship reaches the critical point; our interactions have always been intense, however, all private. With the advent of Facebook and being a well-known person amongst my college, our potential relationship has initiated heavy attention; thus, when I interact with her within my college context, I find the prospect on continuing our intensisty difficult within a public context. I understand, I should have started how I intend to go on; any advice on smoothing this over?
The problem is underlined by the fact that whenever I travel amongst college, people are with me. By contrast, she is of a shy disposition; making approaches awkward, at the moment, I'm working on isolating myself from my peers, and enjoying her company. However, I know that I need to make proceedings comfortable.
I believe blending my social circle with hers could provide a solution; after all, the majority of hers attend different colleges. For instance, tonight I plan to go clubbing with my social circle, she wanted to, but her friends couldn't make it; thus, the interaction never occured. True, I can arrange as many one-on-one interactions as I want, however, this isn't a matter of gaming, I want to maintain my lifestyle alongside my GF; how can I make this transcation smooth? In addition, tommorow, she wants me to go clubbing, I, and my social circle have different plans.
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