@HappySlip: let me break it down for you
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No I wasn't the most popular guy in school but I was content in the people I was with, I was happy. Genetics doesn't control the way you can be happy or not.
Answer: the genes control you in order to benefit the human species, so if you're unworthy, unsure, you would better stay out from people because you're not helping our species to survive.This mindset helped the human being to survive thousands of years.
For genes, the benefit of our species is more important than yours, and that's why in some circumstances they act against you, making you nervous when you're unsure or stutter to girls.
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Yes genetics will give you, your personality but that doesn't mean you can change.
Answer: The genes programming has nothing to do with the personality. Genes are the same for all of us, meanwhile personality is different form one to another. Personality is a different layer, is actually a layer above the genes layer.
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Blaming the intangibles is the worst way that you can deal with what your really worth, you define that yourself.
Answer:I didn't search someone/something to blame to release myself from guilt to feel better, I searched the cause in order to fix the problem. At the beginning, I thought that some people are evil and want me to fail, then i saw that all the people is this way, so then i understood that all the people are controlled by the genes and that people respond to you based on your actions. All the shit ideas is only in my head, out there anything is possible, all i need to do is to update my mind(for this i found hypnosis very helpful, it's like using a hammer, but it's very hard to get it to work-so it's useless if you don't use it properly).