I was chatting to this girl in a club and asked her if she was spontaneous and adventorous, she looked at me and said 'yes i am, but that doesnt mean ill just have one night stands with random guys' I had nothing and just stumbled through the next minute of convo. Any suggestions on a comback for this. Cheers

holy shit. Thats HOT. I would have fucked the dog shit out of her. OMGOMGOMG. Where were you?

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Walk Hard

I would of said:
Neither do I.. i don't fancy guys and made a joke of it and touched her elbow to build kino
or
woah you're getting ahead of yourself (smile, turn and touch)

then lead into ther reason I was asking is.. and you can use a opinion related opener
or ask OK so whats the last spontaneous thing you've done and look for the hook in the conversation and basically have a chat and a laugh.

If you're going to used canned lines be prepared for negative responses so do your home work.

make her feel like she said something stupid...

"wow missy! i just asked if you are spontanious. Who's talking about one night stands" And smile, tease her...


Similar shit test i had with one chick... "are you hitting on me" and i made her feel weird by asking me that... "dont flatter yourself, just because im nice doesnt mean im hitting on you... indeed i think you are hitting on me right now"... something like that.

Use their shit tests to make them feel weird. So they will think twice when they try to shit test you

I think the issue here is more about commitment and consistency. Just coming right out and asking if she is adventurous and spontaneous is not nearly as effective as incorporating it into some sort of routine. Get her to commit to being those things and it will work much better. Look at the Maury povich line…granted this is old and overused but you can see how it works. Also swingcat uses this stuff a lot with great success. During the conversation if she says she has done something adventurous or spontaneous you could say something like “cool, I like my girls to be adventurous”. Now what you have done is grounded that belief in her. So later on you can be like “wait I thought you were adventurous”. Or conversely if she demonstrates behavior that is not adventurous or spontaneous you could be like “that is weak, I like my girls to be spontaneous” and she will feel compelled to seek validation by showing you that she is in fact spontaneous. Just keep trying and see what works

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~Carmo~

Exactly... Same shit i did to one girl who didnt want to dance with me... 1st i compared her with her girlfriend who was dancing then i "made" her to say she is spontanious and after that i could use what she said on her any time i wanted... i say something like "i like honest people" so i can easily use later "ohh you said you are spontanious dont let me down " so she dont have many options to fuck me up

Shot for the feedback, all really useful stuff. I was in a club in johanessburg Magnum45. Cheers