Aight so I tried to talk to this girl around september when i first met her. First thing she did when she met me was shut me down before i even had a chance to look her way it seemed, but the thing was i was there because i was supposed to be this girls date.
The night goes on and we kik it she opens up a lil, then shuts right back up over n over again. And she will be mean every chance possible This goes on for about a month then i jus give up, it took me 3 dates jus to get a f-ing hug and i was driving a good distance to see her too, but enough simpin/bitchin lol(this is all before i was introduced to PUA).
A few months later (after i read The Game and joined this forum) I ran into her at a club, so i neged her, worked perfectly. She txt me a few days lata, I NEVER GAVE HER MY NEW NUMBER, i took this as a sure sign. Went for it and shot down again by her being all mean and shit.
Now she hit me up again and this is how it went
HB: how was ur weekend
Me: who is this
HB: Silvia
Me: good, blah blah, n urs
HB: nothing special, helped a friend paint, let me know if u wanna chill sometime
Me: K… at least you saved money right
HB: nothing for 30 min
Me: Y u hit me up to kik it??
HB: Y u always gotta ask, it’s a simple yes or no
ME: Lol that’s jus me… jus let me know wen u wanna roll through n we can kik it

Im stuck with this chick pretty much cause I don’t know how to game a female like this. I mean she fine ass hell, but mean as hell too, I like her attitude I jus need help breaking her out of her shell.

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Hey Benny...

I would suggest you treat her like a HB8 or up... Some girls have the tendency to over compensate and in this case it seems the shoe would fit. You already admitted that she responded well to your negs so why stop now? Please dont see this the wrong way and think that you should neg her all the time. Just neg and when she proves herself to you in any way, reward her with a little bit of kino.

Thats my opinion so I hope it helps...

thanks Jay... imma do that next time we talk. hopefully all is well

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just some advice from my experience...

don't give in to her right away if she wants u to change the way you treat her. take it slow, and smooth, give her something to work with.

be romantic with her when you get the chance. at the end of the night, ask her to give you her hands, hold them, and tell her she looks very fine and go in for a kiss without asking, but don't make it awkward.

i call girls ONE TIME if i made plans with them, and if they don't pick up, i make plans with my boys. this is a great way to show that you won't always be waiting around for them, and they need to prove themselves. this gets them to break a little.

i always enjoy testing their limits. in general, i enjoy testing people's limits, to see who can take the most. when you meet a girl that's a tough cookie to crack, it wouldn't be a bad idea to really make things hard on her, up until she does crack, and shows you how much she really cares. some girls hold their heads very high, and they don't show you how much they really care until you break them in, just like a new car.

Hey Jay ur advised worked bro thanx!!!! Im now gonna try to take it to the next level and get her to break.

INFLICT- when you meet a girl that's a tough cookie to crack, it wouldn't be a bad idea to really make things hard on her, up until she does crack text

can u explain watchu mean in depth

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