This is a tricky one and I don't think this has been addressed yet. I know men are supposed to lead which I have no problem doing. I'm also pretty solid on my mid-game. The trouble I am having is F-closing because of the fact that I live in a fraternity house with my roommate sleeping not 10 feet from me. The only luck I've had in getting a girl in bed with me at my house were my ex and a slutty one nighter. Obviously having your own place in college helps out tons because it eliminates the...

1. Stall in kicking out your roommate once you get her back
2. DLV of living in a frat house and the associated stereotypes, most importantly the WALK OF SHAME
3. TWIN SIZED BEDS (I'm a rather broad guy)

As it so happens the majority of girls I game happen to game have their own flat/house. Like I said earlier my mid-game is pretty good and I'll K-close if I REALLY want her.

So gentlemen I ask you, for the sake of a newbie... How on Earth am I supposed to get her to take ME home with HER.

Oooh, tough situation mate. I have a similar problem ( I live with my parents, the just won't fuck off when you want them to, damn!)


Well I highly doubt that your friends will want to assist in your situation, so it's unlikely if they fuck off.

In my country this problem is very common... I can offer you a solution but you might not like it...

Here couples just fuck outdoors... Not that I have done it but still... I've seen many thrown away condoms at quiet areas of parks... People don't seem to care I guess.

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I replied to this in day 2's, good well thought out post there.

But I'll say it again, living in the frat house is still a DHV.

for the time being, if the opportunity arises..:

Work your game faster, and get home before your room mate does, and place your pledge paddle on the door... Its a universal symbol. we all know what it means..

You: "Hey, my roommate has his girlfriend over, and i can't really go back home right now.. Lets go drink and order food somewhere..."
Her: Where..
You: Where do you live?
Her: blah blah
You: KK, I'll get some drinks/food and lets go watch tv, til my roommate gives me the heads up..

just lie about your roomate being with his girl.. thats key..

Fixer, haha love the enthusiasm but most southern American girls aren't into that. Knicksfan, I'll def give that one a go seems to be pretty universal.

You could probably just set up something with your frat brother for when one of you brings girls home. I'm sure he'd like some privacy too. Most guys don't try to cockblock a friend.

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I just thought up of another solution.

When yet another college party is about to occur or some event, try persuading your friends to go there, without being very suspicious.

Just plan out everything in advance. So you'll make sure that everyone from your frat house goes to that party and you have some time in which the house is empty. Go to that party , choose your target and run some speedy game on her and don't take long (30-60 minutes)

Take her back to the frat house and it's smooth sailing from there. Make sure you're done before your friends return.

I'm sure there are many other clever ass ways to do this. I remember that Matt H from PUA Training once said - " There are always at least 1000 ways to do something. "

Hope this helps.

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I have a lot of friends who live in frat houses and it's never been a problem for them. Most of the time, your roommate will not try to cockblock you. Shoot him a text before heading back to the house and just say you will be needing the room. He'll understand and dip. It's not like there are no other bedrooms in a frat house for him to go to. First year of college when I had dorm and a roommate, we had a key phrase that meant "get the hell out" haha. I'd come back with a girl and ask my roommate if we still had any "cheese cake left from the night before". He'd usually answer, "No, I think ______ took it. I'll go find out and snag a few slices", and then he would just not return. If she asked where he went (which she usually forgot and never brought back up) I'd just laugh and say he must have gotten lost or caught up in something. I'd set it up by rummaging through the small ass refrigerator between my roommates bed and mine. Idk, phrases usually worked out pretty well for me.

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I dont think there's no effective way to close in order to go home with her... if you game right, then she'll want to have sex with you.. or at least have some privacy with you.... she'll end up offering to come to her place if your place isn't a possibility.. you just have to keep on hinting on going whereever to do something through the "late" midgame, so the lets go back to your place doesn't seem like a big move... use statements like "there's no way this night's over yet." make it seem like your more about the night rather than hooking up with her so that when you be like lets go to your place u don't sound needy..

another major tip is to start talking about roommates and how yours is always needing privacy.. joke about it and throw something funny in there.. don't just bring it up during the close. because thats the typical sleezy college go to ur place line.. If she brings up your roommate being at your place anytime after thats the cue for you to say "lets go chill some more at your place"..

another major tip is to develop a really good connection with her.. that's actually more of a goal than a tip.. If you give her the vibe that you enjoy her company and like talking about random stuff wtih her, then she'll be eager to hang out with you some more.. that ofcourse will work with some good kino.