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PostPosted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 8:39 pm 
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Hee Guys!

My problem is that I just go blank if I want to talk to girls, nothing comes out of my mouth and you know the regular stuff (age, where she lives etc.) that's done within 5 minutes and I'm just another guy who's asking her that.

Can you give me some killer conversation topics or conversation examples which I can apply, just to have a conversation for about 15 - 30 mins, so I can use the time constraint method afterwards. Everyone is saying "just talk about something", I'm not looking for those answers, because they aren't helping me, hope you can really help me out!

Hope to hear from you!
This is simple because there are only three things people want to talk about with someone they don't know - in order:
1) Factual stuff as a reason to talk. This is things like directions etc
2) Themselves. Everyone wants to talk about themselves, just don't ask too deep questions such as what they hope to achieve in life. Keep it light and simple, try to pick up unique clothing or something like that and what made them get it etc etc
3) Yourself. If you want to move on from being a stranger to them, they have to know about you. Knowing your name doesn't mean they know you. If you want specific things to talk about, tell me where your approaching and it will be a lot easier to suggest. But as with number 2, keep it light and simple.

Madals
Hee Madals,

Thanks for your reply at my post. You asked me to tell me where I'm approaching so you can give me some suggestions, well most of the time I'm approaching in Clubs and Disco's. I bet you have some good suggestions on that ;)

Hope to hear from you.

Cheers!


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At clubs, after 15-30mins you don't really want to be talking.
In a party situation everything is at high speed.
Dancing is obviously good escalation, after 5 mins or so tell her to come and dance with you (obviously only if your confident with dancing).
K-close: after 15mins at a club you should be looking to isolate and k-close. People go to clubs for one reason, to meet people *most of the time to meet people they will want to have sex with*. If the conversation is going well and she hasn't brought up a boyfriend or anything, isolate!
Get in with her friends: assuming you are just talking to her, slipping in if she came with anyone (and then suggesting to meet them) is a great way to further your frame. If you meet her friends and come across as a cool attractive guy to them as well, your set :D

Lastly, don't be afraid to walk away if the conversation is going well even after a few mins. Tell her you have to go and catch up with a friend and you will catch up with her later. Then just make sure you do :D

Hope that helps.


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 Post subject: Need some help here
PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 7:19 am 
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So this new HB8 has caught my eye around the school, and we've been talking lots. We already have plans on dinner at her place.

But there's a problem. I'm 17, and i'm seeing this girl who is 16 (HB6).

She thinks that I am going to ask her to be official, but really my intention is to go no further than we are currently because I am starting to grow bored of her company.

How do I go about this without hurting anyone's feelings TOO badly?


Thanks in advance

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 Post subject: Re: Need some help here
PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 11:48 am 
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So this new HB8 has caught my eye around the school, and we've been talking lots. We already have plans on dinner at her place.

But there's a problem. I'm 17, and i'm seeing this girl who is 16 (HB6).

She thinks that I am going to ask her to be official, but really my intention is to go no further than we are currently because I am starting to grow bored of her company.

How do I go about this without hurting anyone's feelings TOO badly?


Thanks in advance
Honesty.

These situations are often very personnal and I can't give you any magic pill that will leave you with a clear answer.

You just have to explain the situation, sometimes people get hurt, and that's all that there is.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 7:21 pm 
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Hi, newbie question here.

So I met this girl on a party last year. And last year I did quite a lot of partying so I ocassionaly met her. But at the time I had a girlfriend and wasn't really interested in her. I broke up with my gf like couple of months ago and looking for new one :) And then I found her in my facebook friend list. And now I find her reaally attractive.

I must say I'm kinda romantic person so I came up with this "plan". I can draw a nice picture of her and then message her something like "I think I have something that belongs to you" and then basically meet up and present the picture.

The question is like what exactly should I write to get enough attention, because the facebook is the only contact that I have. Like I met her a year ago, not sure if even she remember me and suddenly I message her with pretty random thing. What if she asks what exactly that is I have? Should I go like "this will be a surprise for you"? Any other ideas?

P.S. This year I really dont party that much, cause my mates moved out of the dorm and it's kinda boring partying on my own, since I dont drink or anything. So meeting her on a party is hardly an option.

P.P.S. I'm not posting this in "Online sarging" cause I dont wanna spend much time chatting in facebook and like ... I'm using different approach here, u know.
Well the plan you have is either going to be a terrific failure or a great sucess, depending on how you handle it!

It could be easier to just ignite conversation with her normally and then after a while arrange a meet up.

Outside of that, when you're looking for something to write, keep it relatively short, and if you can cram in an inside joke all the better! :)


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 Post subject: Heyya.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 5:18 am 
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Okay this is the problem I'm facing.

I've got this friend. I'm not close to him. His girlfriend is probably a 9 she's pretty much a cute blonde.. And I can pretty much tell that I can score her. When her boyfriend isnt arnd, she gets close to me, touches me, and loads of eye contact. How do i progress this into making her my f-buddy. I want to bed her of course. Without letting anyone in my social group know. I'm good at scoring girlfriends. But not f-buddies. I'm guessing isolate her. And than talk to her about it?

Advice Cap'tn!

Summary of questions.

1. There's always a cock blocker in my group that points me and hb out when I'm running my game. How do i keep it low? Cause her boyfriend is kind of a " Hi, bye"
friend to me.

2. How to maintain it a secret. And get her not to tell anyone. Yes, I'm good at bed, But I'd prefer to keep it on low cause I prefer privacy. Heh.


I'm new here btw. Nice to meet you guys. Looking forward to improve to my game!

Thanks again.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:33 am 
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Wazzup guys!

Question. I walked into a sunglasses store with an hb8 working at the counter. I walked up to her and was like, "i need an opinion" I had my shades on my head so i put them on then took them off then put them on... "on, off, on, off, what do you think?" I could see she had major ASD on, so I told her the reason I actually came in there was to win a smoke off her.

I played the 5 questions game with her and won myself a smoke while she was giggling and trying to wiggle her way out of it, after that I neged her, it was a bit weak but hey. She started asking me questions (showing some interest) then we got to a dead end, I couldnt think of anything to say so I fluffed for a bit and eject without a number.

Any suggestions for going back in there? Anything will be appreciated, thanx


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Do you have to run this game in places where you dont know anyone? all the places in my area everyone seems to know each other. and they go from place to place together so seems like im always in a place were people know each other. how can you work a game there?


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Hy guys , could you answer my post at the "sticking points => How do I build attraction, make her aroused and similar???? " please, ty ... cheers

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There's an HB that works at my bank and I expressed my interest in her to a co-worker whose wife works at this same bank. He told me that the HB has a boyfriend and he's a dick. I'm pretty sure she was informed of my interest in her because a couple days ago I got a friend request from her on facebook, this tells me she had to look up my last name from documents at her work in order to find me. Long story short we have messaged each other like twice and am not sure if she's having second thoughts on talkin to me. I have a girlfriend as well.

What's the best way to find out if I can take it further? (my only resource to contact her being facebook or going to the bank)


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Heya Guys,

I was meeting this Girl quite often the last couple of weeks, she is in a new Relationship for a few months.. i know her for a long while..

so we have been meeting and i was gaming her C&F,P&P and KINO Escalation of course.. she was very Attracted and let me Escalate until a certain point.. and from there she was constantly giving me heavy Shittest when i tried to escalate and blocked my touches.

Even tho i was working with FreezeOuts and mastered her Shittests, the Escalation didnt move on. So i have sent her home almost every meeting, after she kept blocking my touches and holding back my escalation..

Funny thing is, she still called me after every meeting and wanted to meet again, i knew for a fact that she was attracted but she didnt let me escalate..

after like 4 meetings where i couldnt move on with the escalation, i decided to tell her the following out of the mood, i didnt think about it, i just felt that i had to say it.

Tony: look, where are too diffrent, we dont want the same
HB: why, just because i dont want to make out with you ? i only do that with my friend..
Tony: Its ok, we do not want the same
HB: So what we gonna do now ?
Tony: we wont see each other ever again..
HB: Cant we just hang around and have fun, but dont make out ?
Tony: Im only available as a Man, not as BFF
HB: i dont see you as BFF, i see you normal..
Tony: I do not have/want/need Female Friends
HB: Make an exception
Tony: why ?

Thats all i can remember, i also told her stuff like, that i enjoyed the time with her, that i had alot of fun and also that the meetings kept repeating and it was leading nowhere and that its a waste of time..

Ever since i told her this, we had absolutley no contact for like a week now.. i kind of regret the decision, since i really liked the company of this girl, it was fun to hang around with her but i was missing the sex and i wouldnt be happy with just a Friendship..

So guys, tell me your thoughts..

Do you believe that i did the right thing to tell her this ?
Should i keep the Freeze Out and wait for her to get back to me ?
Or is a next the better solution ?
also what if i break off the Freeze Out on my own, by beeing the first to contact her again ?


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What should I do when you are in a place with all better looking guys than you and girls that would never consider you


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 Post subject: Re: Heyya.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 2:51 pm 
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Okay this is the problem I'm facing.

I've got this friend. I'm not close to him. His girlfriend is probably a 9 she's pretty much a cute blonde.. And I can pretty much tell that I can score her. When her boyfriend isnt arnd, she gets close to me, touches me, and loads of eye contact. How do i progress this into making her my f-buddy. I want to bed her of course. Without letting anyone in my social group know. I'm good at scoring girlfriends. But not f-buddies. I'm guessing isolate her. And than talk to her about it?

Advice Cap'tn!

Summary of questions.

1. There's always a cock blocker in my group that points me and hb out when I'm running my game. How do i keep it low? Cause her boyfriend is kind of a " Hi, bye"
friend to me.

2. How to maintain it a secret. And get her not to tell anyone. Yes, I'm good at bed, But I'd prefer to keep it on low cause I prefer privacy. Heh.


I'm new here btw. Nice to meet you guys. Looking forward to improve to my game!

Thanks again.
To keep it secret. Pfft that's not even game. That's just common sense, don't tell ANYONE, it will always travel. And make sure whatever fun you have, you have it in private.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 2:54 pm 
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Wazzup guys!

Question. I walked into a sunglasses store with an hb8 working at the counter. I walked up to her and was like, "i need an opinion" I had my shades on my head so i put them on then took them off then put them on... "on, off, on, off, what do you think?" I could see she had major ASD on, so I told her the reason I actually came in there was to win a smoke off her.

I played the 5 questions game with her and won myself a smoke while she was giggling and trying to wiggle her way out of it, after that I neged her, it was a bit weak but hey. She started asking me questions (showing some interest) then we got to a dead end, I couldnt think of anything to say so I fluffed for a bit and eject without a number.

Any suggestions for going back in there? Anything will be appreciated, thanx
Nothing, she's into you, just keep convo light, learn a bit about her, give a bit about you and close.


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Do you have to run this game in places where you dont know anyone? all the places in my area everyone seems to know each other. and they go from place to place together so seems like im always in a place were people know each other. how can you work a game there?
Like NORMAL!


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