I've been seeing a girl for about a month and a half. She is a high status hb9 with a very active social life.

This week she's been too busy to see me. I was off with her on the phone and she said she did not want to row about it.

What I want to know is the best way to deal with this?

a) tell her firmly that I want to see her more (This seems dominant but is it also needy and demonstrating lower value?)

b) tell her that if she wants to be with me she should make time to see me (This also seems dominant but is it also needy and demonstrating lower value?)

c) act like I don't give a shit that I'm really busy too (slow down on text responses, etc.).

Its strange because the first two seem like dominant things to do - i.e. being direct / assertive, but it also seems needy (cardinal sin).

Any advice appreciated,
thanks,
Rich

Go beat up the other guy she's banging.

Option "C" sounds like your most plausable choice. Go out, have fun, and be too busy to see her. If she's the one always turning you down she has all the power in the relationship and you're living on her schedule. Turn the tables and make her live on yours.

~Antithesis

Your focusing way too much on this girl. You need to broaden your horizons and stop worrying so much about what this one girls doing. If she really wants to hang out with you then she will make time for you.

Thanks alot for your help guys, I really appreciate it!

Quality answers,
Ricky

Drop her and move on.

Not to be mean, but these girls get this shit ALL THE FUCKING TIME.

...or buy a Mercedes. She'll come to you REAL QUICK. =p.

Just kidding. But, drop her. Go out. Be merry. Have a fucking Guinness!

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Drop her and move on.

Not to be mean, but these girls get this shit ALL THE FUCKING TIME.

...or buy a Mercedes. She'll come to you REAL QUICK. =p.

Just kidding. But, drop her. Go out. Be merry. Have a fucking Guinness![/quote]

Ha ha! Awesome! I'm going out on the pull tonight and I might even have a Guiness to!!

Have a good night guys!!