Say it is a Sunday, Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday (a low party night for most people) and you want to go to a pub to sarge for girls (or if you know a target might be going there). Your friends can not make it.

One way or another you meet up with some girls and they saw you sitting alone at the bar.

You know that they are asking themselves why you are alone or one might even directly ask you in mid conversation.

What would your answer be??

The best I could think of is that I'm new in town or just passing through, ect.

Any ideas?

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Are you in the Calgary Alberta area? interested in pub nights? PM Me!

If I'm just looking for a one night stand, I usually use the "I'm a lawyer and one of my clients got arrested while on vacation here, so I have to be at his arraignment in the morning. I just flew here from blah blah blah".

I wear a suit and tie almost all the time so it works great.

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Evil will always triumph over good, because good is dumb.

I just say my friend got too pissed and my friends took him home in a cab, i wanted to stay out to meet new people

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

depending on what time it is, say your friends are either late showing up, have flaked or left early. but the best thing to do is befriend the whole room. open a bunch of sets, guys, girl, hb5s, hb6s, hb2s whatever. that way you don't have to sit alone at the bar, you have a bunch or people to talk to plus social proof.

plus if it doesn't go well with your target there may be another hb to game.

I totally know what you mean. Most of my friends are lazy and too stoned all day to go looking for fresh ass (especially on a weeknight) So I'm often venturing out in search of a fresh face to sleep at my place. My other sarging friends are either in relationships or lazy. I'm a go-getter, not a spectator.

(My friends are not often successful with girls or can't find the motivation, mostly in part due to their smoking sensi habits. SMOKING is the ANTI-POON. Until you find a girlfriend you like to smoke with, I'd avoid it. Whether or not it actually affects your sex drive, my friends are walking examples of this)

Anyway, when I go out to a bar, most people are looking to meet people, so to warm up I'll just start bullshitting with whoever is sitting nearby. I don't mind if it's a guy, but a good looking girl is a bonus.

After that I'll start to work the room. Acquire potential targets, in ascending order, so if some skank gives me the cold shoulder (not too terribly often), then I can move up to a girl next who is more physically attractive (regardless of intelligence, girls let their imaginations go wild, it's all about how much better the next chick looks compared to them) Bring a girl-friend with you if you can, you might lay her or you can use her to your advantage. I forget the term these girls are called. Use the next chick you talk to as leverage, on the one who rejected your earlier. It's your best bet to make a 2nd first impression.

After that have fun, you'll at least leave with (hopefully) some fresh numbers, and if even better someone to wake up next to. (Depending on how tight your game is.)

Hope this helps.

Dev

Tell them that your 2 friends just went home with 2 nasty looking chicks and say you only date 9's and 10's. Come off real cocky too.

For some reason I find solo sarging easier, but only during day game. Like if I am sitting alone in a skytrain, and I approach a girl by herself, I think she feels less intimidated instead of me having 3 pals hanging around me.

Night game is totally different, it's all about social proof. Find some local puas and go out with them!

When I enter a bar I go into a set immediately just to warm up, it could as well be an all guy set. That builds social proof and just like that you are not alone anymore.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Barney Stinson alert?

Anyways, I know a guy who's quite a PUA (he knows pickup and such, goes to surges quite a lot too), and when he goes solo he usually tries to get into a group, quickly remarks himself as the AMOG there, and then...well, you're not "solo".

"I'm here to get laid"

Something along those lines usually works fine. ^^

I don't see anything wrong with just being there for a drink.

This man knows what its about!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn