this is a bit of a sensitive issue but fuck it.
ive spent months gaming my oneitis. i finally got her and was sooo happy the problem: eveytime she even goes near my dick i blow my load within a few minutes. I have never had this problem in the past.

anyone been in a similar situation?
anyone got any tips?
anyone have a possible explanation as to why this is hapening?
oh and what sort of frame should i hold around the issue toward her? we have spoken about it.

Try some strategic.... alone time *ahem* before doing the deed. Should help your staying power a bit.

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The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.

When receving, sexual favours, compare her preformance to other girls, shes probaly not anything special in the bedroom!

Shes a 'SEX GOD'!! tell her.
This is not a problem as the main goal of this exercise is to take ur concentration away from the situation your in, once not thinking about it staying power does increase! POW ur a sex god! it only ur own mind working against u.

this doesnt work for everyone as different mindsets are weaker than others, the mind can very easily brought back to reality when fucking a hb9 or 10!

technical support would be pull ur dick out and get ur tounge involved when ur close to 'blowing ur load' repeat the process, she will enjoy it more than a 2 minuite sprint for sure.

Although the above advice isnt bad I have to provide you the straight up truth!

It is all about getting used to her, I've had this happened with me twice, one girl was a model, super hot and the other girl was asian with the tightest vagina ever!

But the trick is to keep doing it, get used to each other, after you had sex stay in bed, wait until you are ready again and start over, you usually last a lot longer the second time and as soon as you are used to her the problem will be gone, I promise!

There are also plenty of techniques to hold it back, but also those are best learned when you "practice" with the girl, since you say you can talk to her about this, tell her you need a full day in bed with "practice" tell her that you will supply the strawberries and champagne

FYI, Durex also makes a condom with a numbing chemical that gives you less sensation and therefore longer lasting sex!

That could help you in the beginning but trust me, practice helps, for me, it eliminated the problem completely and forever!

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Research dopamine.

If you are young this is a common problem anyway.

Try eating lots of carbohydrates, serotonin enhancing foods. Read into gingko & ginseng.

What I do is, first of all, you know when you can stop, Stop before u blow. Realize their satisfaction is more vital and important!
What I do?
well, I start with oral sex and fingering my gf. Most girls do prefer Oral sex and fingering to intercourse as long as you keep the connection throughout the sex.
Making a girl cum is not a rocket science. Here is the routine :p
1. Make sure she is comfortable
2. Make sure she is comfortable
3. Make sure she is comfortable
4. get her aroused by kissing her lips and neck. -Do not use toooo much tongue, only try hards do that shit, I do once in a while cause I have a very long tongue and freaks them out a lil in a good way-
5. go down on her, make her cum, ask her for advice if you have to -and no shame in that as diff girls have diff ways of getting orgasm (some by clit, some by G-spot, some even by pulling and bitting their nipple hard (yeah i was surprised when I found out too))
6. One of the most effective possitions I do is when she is in doggy style and u lay on ur back and lick the clit and rob the G-spot, or just do it in missionary possition!

Thats what I do as I really cant be bothered to stress "im comming now, is it too early, is it too late?" and all other crap that makes ya worried and not enjoy your sex. make them cum first and then if they are not too sensitive, have intercourse and don't worry too much about ur timing and if they r too sensitive, use more lube and kiss her for a few minutes and start slowly!

So remember, her satisfaction is the most important thing, as not all girls have experinced cumming and true orgasm and you would like to be her first or maybe her best!

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thanks everyone for all you help. slywalker: i have now spent a decent amount of time with her "practicing" and to tell you the truth it has helped a bit. i can last a bit longer but i think i will try and straight up say that i need to get used to her like you said.
female artist do you mind if i pm you?

I just reread my post and its way off topic. Last time I send a reply half asleep. :p sorry for spamming lol

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haha dont worry, thanks anyways. i did actually take a few of those pointers. like ive been stopping when im close, give it a break and then keep goin which has helped, but i have no problem making her cum (ive watched steve p's dvd's that stuff is incredible) its just stopping myself from cumming thats the issue because she is keen for actual sex.

Maybe you just like her too much???

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This is a problem I've never had, although I was curious about it so, like any good researcher, I looked up information about it.

The way most therapists recommend is to have her manually stimulate you and BEFORE you get to the point of no return (this might take some time to find) squeeze the glans (the head) and stop stroking. Do this several times every night and your stamina should build up.

I'm pretty sure the reason I have no problem lasting (it's actually been a problem with several gf's. It's a real task to get me off) is because in middle school and high school I was serious AFC, so I jerked it a lot. I mean, a sick amount of times per day, so I finally got desensitized. I know this sounds weird, but you can work on your stamina alone even better if you get a rag or something to put between yourself and yourself jr. This will give you more stimulation since it won't feel as much like you doing it.

This is a problem a lot of guys have man, don't feel embarrassed or down on yourself. My best friend in the whole world was a premie with his wife, and I never found out until she told me a year later.

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