OK I have incountered a big problem last night ... see ive been frequently going to this bar/restaurant thats pretty trendy ... always hitting up on the waitresses and bartenders (all chicks by the way) ... all the waitresses know me by now (Its been months now) and the manger has become a great buddy to talk to everytime I go there (He even buys me drinks haha GOLD!)

The situation here I have is now Ive heard from other waitresses that this certain waitress really likes me ... and I know who it is ... shes a really sweet and fiesty Redhead (shes a bit taller than me but I guess it doesnt bother her the least bit). We've really hit it off ... shes given me a few IOI's ... and ive been pushing a bit of kino ... and totally running off with the Push/Pull Technique ... saying something nice followed by something mean ... then vice-versa ...

But last night she's been giving me the hint to ask for her phone number ... and really hinting we should go hang out ... part of me is like (I dont know if I should you know I frequently go to this bar and if things go bad I dont want to be unwelcomed there) .. but at the same time Im really into redheads and shes been driving me up the wall ever since she gave me her first IOI...

I dont know how to go about this ... how to ask for her number ... should I forget about her and look for another girl or should I try make this work ... im in a rutt
and I really dont know what to do!?

Much needed help appriciated!

Thanks.

Why are you overthinking this so much!? You like her. She likes you.

Get her number! Ask her out! I mean, just how good is this bar?

It sounds to me like this one is teed up for you, man, ready to be hit out of the park. Just go for it; it doesn't get any easier.

Its the best bar because I don have to buy my drinks lol thats how good it is haha
ok fuck it im gonna go all Alfie on this and just ask for her number .. your so right!
ya it doesnt get any easier ... I have good rapport with all the waitresses and managers there ... fine im totally going for it ... ok f**k it .. this shit is going down!

ill tell you all what went down when I come back after tonight! (She asked me to come by this evening cuz she will be bartending)