What the fuck man? You still make out with her? How does your roommates dick taste?

Get the fuck out of there man.

Are you a MAN?

You don't EVER take a woman back after she cheats on you. EVER EVER EVER. No woman is worth that shit. She is with some other dude, spreading her legs getting fucked, while you sit in your room crying. If I was you I would go bring another chick home while she was there.

Never speak to her again. Shake your roommates hand and tell him thank you. Thank you for showing me her true colors and how she is a worthless bitch. Tell him she is his problem now.

Damn, posts like yours piss me off.

Oh yeah: "if it is really meant to be it will happen. Just give it due time. You must have faith." -translation is "We will never be together. I have cheated on you at least 20 times and you taste their dicks every time we kiss"

Grow some balls. Get a bottle of mouthwash to get rid of the dick taste, and go find a better woman. NOW.

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Evil will always triumph over good, because good is dumb.

And what I offered you is the method to not only get this sorry ass excuse for a ditz back sucking your cock,(if you wanted it) but also the way to fuck any girl you desire.

Get your head screwed on straight you dope . . . Think about this, you are currently the fuck-along of two little worthless shits. You're getting spit on by idiots and you sit there wanking off on your sofa dreaming up fantasy bullshit. I apologize if you are seriously mentally handicapped and you can't think further than the girl who shits on your face and the sofa your guy friend uses to plug your "girlfriend" in the ass. If this is the case, just ask for permission to watch so you can get your wank on.

Otherwise, get your life together man . . . For the love go God, you're making my eyes water with the stench of your bullshit.

i agree with everyone on here bro. you need to quit trying to get her back, why would you want a stuck up cunt of a girlfriend who thinks its ok to pretty much fuck your roommate while your sittin right there. and if you think its really want you want in life, this isnt the place for you honestly.

just go get a girl, take her to your place, make sure they are there, and show her that you dont need her to be happy. show her that you can get another girl, and maybe shell realize shes not as "perfect" as you make her out to be. then she might reconsider cheating on you every time you go to sleep at night. shell realize that shes not the only person you can get.

i mean jesus christ dude, i understand your in love with her, but your making yourself out to be pathetic. and guess what, SHE SEES THAT!! she knows it hurts you, but guess what, she knows you wont do shit about it but get on the forum and bitch and try to find ways to get her back.

foreal man just drop her, freeze her out, and let her know what she did (or does rather) isnt ok. kasabi is right. either drop that bitch, ask if you can watch, or join in and taste your roommates ball sweat every time you get sloppy seconds.

i cant believe im getting this worked up over this. its so simple its rediculous, and it makes you look pathetic.

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"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."
--Siddhartha Buddha

You want to get back with her??? Have you really thought about this???

Mate the fact is... She cheated on you. And your friend has majorley dis-respected you. That is the bottom line..

Do you really want to be in a relationship with a woman and get married with her when she has cheated with your best mate. Because you do realise that your going to be reminded of this situation every single day for the rest of your life when you see her and him.

I havent read every post on here.. but im sure its something along the lines of moving on.. And dude you have to.

Listen the pain your going to experience when moving on is going to be a lot less then experiencing the pain you have now. The pain you will go through when moving on is their fault. They caused you to be in that situation. But going through the pain you have now is YOUR fault because your not standing up as a man and your not moving on.

By the sounds of it.. shes pretty much already in a relationship with your roommate. And before you know it they're asking you to move out because they want to have the house. Next thing you know.. They're making wedding plans while your at the doctor getting anti-depressants. How painfull do you think you feel then??

Let me know..

The answer:
Move out of the house immediately. Take the advice. Start a new life And when you do.. you'll probably cry and feel lonely in the beginning... But the initial step of anything is always the hardest. But we're all here man.. and trust me your life will be sooo much better..


E.

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"Everytime they reject me is a step closer to becoming the person they like" Lisa Simpson.

I already stated my official advice: this chick is trouble. If you let her get away with this she's going to get away with whatever other bullshit she wants IF you get her back.

My PUA advice: I would act like everything is cool and start bringing another girl around. If she cares for you at all this will spark jealousy. The fact that you're over her so quickly will make her think "Just last week he was all over me, trying to get me to be solely with him...why is he so cool with me fucking his friend and not trying to win me back?" Then, assuming you're wearing the PUA hat and for sure not pursuing her, she MIGHT come back around to you. If you stay on your current "sweetheart" and "taking her out on dates" path, she's just going to get the message that she can do whatever she wants with both of you, and you both will be alright with it.

In a nutshell, she's gaming YOU.

The biggest problem I see with this is that you're either not setting your standards at a healthy level, or willing to let this girl get away with anything. What do you do when a child acts up? You punish them for doing something wrong. The kid then gets the idea that doing something wrong gets them punished. For heaven's sake man, have some dignity.

Have you done the very first exercise most mPUAs prescribe these days? Sit down, and write a list of qualities you want in your life mate, and DON'T just describe this girl. Do the same thing for your "friend." Is helping your girlfriend cheat by having sex with her a desirable quality in someone you trust?

If "a girl who thinks cheating" is actually on this list, slap yourself. That's not healthy for anyone unless you're really into swinging, and from what I read, I gather that you're not.

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There's a reason you want to be a PUA, so don't lie to yourself.

You want the 10's.

Breaker

Shoot where the hell do you live? I want to beat the **** out of your roommate FOR you.


How bout this my man. I majored in psychology, going for my PhD currently. I have a very good understanding of the human mind and behavior. I can help you get her back, if you do something for me first. I want you to:

A). Tell me how you can trust her again
B). Tell me why you want someone who ditched you for your FRIEND
C). Explain how you can prevent her from doing it again
D). Explain why she deserves you.


Fact is, I think you want her back because you think she is something she isn't. Or you want her back to prove to yourself you're better than your roommate. Or you just love to chase. No matter your reason, you need to answer A-D and I will help you, if you still deem it worthwhile.

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Recovering AFC as of 4 months ago
Me: http://i49.tinypic.com/2zyiqzp.jpg
(Pic taken for lifting progress)

Just like EVERY LTR, After you break up and want her back (trust me.. you are not the only one).. You really don't want HER, its the emotional attachment that you've associated with her. And really what i mean is you can't tell me WHY you want her, you just want the memory of the select good times (some more than others) that your relationship once was.

Whether you want her back or not (and i hope you have some sense slapped into you soon) you are LETTING HER SHIT ALL OVER YOURSELF.. That is so far the opposite of a PUA..

What you need to do is walk up to her and say "Hey bitch... look, I'm not going to be dragged along by you, while you come into my room, kiss me, and tell me you love me, and then walk RIGHT NEXT DOOR, and fuck the SHIT out of my room mate.. So you get over yourself, and figure out what the fuck you want. and then once you realize you made a mistake, you can come crawling back to me... And then MAYBE i'll take you back." (Don't actually say that.. but something to that effect.. and thats the attitude you should keep.. during this time, fuck as many other women as possible. Also during her "self reflection time" NO:

Kissing
Talking,
Hand Holding
Eye contact
With your cheating girlfriend


and Pee sitting down as your punishment
)


And then when she does come crawling back, say "WHY the FUCK would i do that? I've been screwing 6 other girls" Then whip out your dick and piss on her, aim for the white skirt thats dry clean only, the smell is harder to get out...

Seriously dude.. grow a pair, you are being USED, and ABUSED by some chick who is letting you "DATE" her while she is cheating on you, and you KNOW it, but you aren't doing a damn thing about it.

Do you realize how AFC, and RIDICULOUS that sounds?!

My mind sees this logically. She's a whore, he's a AFC fag. My heart and my emotions are fucking me. I am planning on moving to another state but that won't happen for several months... I do just want to tell her she fucked up and leave, but when I see her something else comes out. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me.

I did blow up at her once and told her what a horrible person she was for doing this and how that their relationship probably won't last, and that I don't deserve this shit, bla bla bla... and then my fucking emotional side takes over and I want to be with her 2 days later.

I probably just need to gtfo of here. But 5 months is a long time to put up with this bullshit. I might temporarily move to a friends place if he lets me... fuck my life.

Thanks for the support, guys.


Oh, and if someone wants to beat the fuck out of him, that'd be great lol im in SF >.>

you're right. and, both this girl and this guy, are being bitches..

But you are ALSO being equally as AFC by allowing this to go on for so long. We ALL have these AFC tendencies (or at least I do) but what makes you a good PUA, or a good Alpha male, or even just lets say a man.. Is your ability to hide your cards, and take the most logical obvious and furthermore COREECT path.

I don't mean to be mean, but sometimes, it's the only way to get it through..

And YES! It's very hard. But you will be better off.

Promise me you won't continue letting her toss you around, and letting her kiss you, and promise me you will walk in to your room mates room while they are fucking and make it clear that you are not currently dating.