| I don't know how many have seen my Slow Steppers Never Prosper field report, but to get the full spectrum of things then feel free to read.
Basically, after the night at the club me and HB9 had been texting a little and laughing about the things that went on. Yesterday, she says she's going to pass by because she's gotta do some things at the library and she wants to go visit me at work. I agree, simply because I'm really into this girl.....but here's the catch: She's going through a Divorce, she has an 8 month old Baby boy, and she's constantly having problems with the baby's Father.(Who works out at the gym I work at, along with his dad and brother).
She had told me all of this the Sunday afternoon, the day after we hooked up. So, when she passed by the gym I took her outside and we talked for a loooooooooong time. She explained her situation again, only this time she posed a very serious question: "Where do you see this going?"
I'm more than ashamed to say that despite all of my confidence infront of Females, I completely froze and began mumbling like an asshole. She cut the conversation real short and disregarded me like she was waisting her time.....I felt like complete shit.....not to mention the Co-Worker that I hate completely saw my AFC state of mind and completely AMOG'd me. The only thing I could do was follow Styles advice and turn my back on both of them, heading back into the gym and signing people up.
After the short while she was talking to him, I was plainly pissed-as per the look on my face-to which she picked up on. She came back inside and tried to cheer me up.......and lets face it....it worked....My co-worker tried to walk her back to her car, I obviously got angry but cooly became Alpha again and made him look like an ass. He left, then after a short while I walked her to the car and kissed her.
I really feel my game and extremely rookie PUA skills suffered through the whole ordeal.......especially with the offgaurd question.
When I got home I had a chance to meditate on what happened and everything that was said and I sent her a long text message expressing how I felt: which to put bluntly.....
"We're both not ready for a relationship, I care about your Baby's well-being, I respect you, We're both attracted to each other, I agree we should still hangout and what not, and we'll see what happens (if) anything happens."
She agreed, and end of story.
I want to know how I could have prevented the AMOG intrusion from my Co-Worker? Wether to treat her like a freind or a girlfreind, considering she still wants to fool around and she told me she likes me? And any other advice you guys can throw at me.....
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