Pleased to be introduced!
I'll try to answer your question about how I guessed which method works better for me.
Back in my previous years, i did terrible mistakes that doomed me to stay in the friend zone more than often. I had to put in order everything!
A top three of my terrible things: i was sharing too many emotions including those driving women away, not retaining negative or weak emotional states, and showing unsecurities too carelessly. Later, I realized what I was being dismissed as "friend" for.
And that was for being pointless. In other words, I was not aware of which signals trigger attraction and what was needed to build comfort, and what were the proper moments. So, I looked around for a detailed description of
all the courtship process from the approach to sex. I only needed to jump into a no-nonsense description point by point of the courtship process,the fact it was mystery's structured method and not someone else's was just a case.
That system actually gave me the big picture of pickup..but after 3-4 months of practicing it, I got bored. When it covers the attraction subphases I was ok, while it tells much, much less about comfort and pretty nothing about seduction, except for LMR. It's going through tne DiCarlo's "Attraction Code" that I got the groundings about rapport, and it worked much, much more.
