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PostPosted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 1:39 pm 
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A problem I see in almost all PUAs who aren't getting consistent results is that they haven't yet learnt how do nothing effectively.

We learn all these far-flung techniques and tactics and lines and routines and inner game and all, but, most PUAs aren't taught - or don't teach themselves - to first do NOTHING.

There's no point learning to do something effectively if you can't just stand there effectively.

Broadly, what I'm talking about is your demeanour and non-verbal communication. Also, how to speak. All the classic talk slowly, pause, deep tonality stuff.

I'm going to copy and paste a post I wrote for the apostles of pickup a while back:

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It's good that you mentioned the very last question, because it's so second nature to me now that's unconscious.

You will become more sexual and you progress but the key is not to act sexual, but to BE THE SEX.

I think I wrote a post about this a long while ago on the old board. But the key is that in every move you make, every slight turn of your head, every minute bit of eye contact...you have status, dominance, sex, masculinity, mysteriousness oozing out. It also helps to know you are the shit. If you watch James Bond in his movies, notice how this is the case with him.

After a while that becomes so natural that it's hard to turn it off more than turn it on.

Every PUA should spend time in the mirror analysing his body language. This is something I did a while back, and I still do from time to time. Discover all the different facial expressions your face can make and utilize them in field. Notice the effect if you cock your head slightly, or lean on one foot. RELEASE YOUR BODY.

The girl should know that you're the shit before you even open your mouth.
You can sarge girls without speaking a word - or - speaking very minimally (what I call "James Bonding it"). I know Hypnotica and some other mPUAs are working on sarging without words - I've gotten two # closes before, one of which was on a bus, without saying a single word. But, sadly, nothing further (haven't pushed the boundaries yet). Most of it actually comes from inner game.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 2:11 pm 
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^That's pretty amazing. I'd love to have seen that. When I did it, it worked, but it was with more of a fun vibe rather than a sexual one which would probably have raised difficulties if I were following up the numbers. I just wanted to demonstrate it to people at the time. Plus one of them had a bf. LOL.

It is a big deal though. When I'm sarging with other PUAs and I'm in set with them, it's often cringing because they're doing SO WELL to think on their feet, be natural, pass shit tests, say their routines but they are just losing the set through their body language. I just think:

Why are you giving a disproportionate amount of eye contact to the target?
Why aren't you dominating the space?
Why are your legs folded?
Why are you speaking so fast? (This is a BIG ONE)
Why are you frowning slightly when she gives you a shit test?
Sort your life out!!

The other thing is, as you particularly know, I've been experimenting pretty heavily with full-blown hypnosis recently...but to immorally powerful effect. I was hypnotising a girl the other day to f-close her - we were in her room- because I had positioned myself badly (school boy error, haha), and it just occurred to me the idea of "the language of love".

Because about 2-3 mins in when she was in a trance (and I kind of was too), and I ran out of improvisation material, I was just chatting COMPLETE BS, but because all the non-verbals were there...it just went so well. Sloow blinking, slow speaking, deep tonality, close proximity, trance, cock of the head, make her eyes point upwards...almost as if I could have started jumbling nonsense words or just random sounds that spoke the language of love. The language of love has no words in it...

I would say a great exercise is to try and talk to a friend, or a HB (get her to join in) by just making sounds rather than words.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 8:03 pm 
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I get it and have done the no word pick up/make quite a few times. I read some where or David D must have said it somewhere that he had a friend who walked into a club and then without a word just made eye contact and started making out. I was fasinated and tried that for an entier week, and I was successful. Not in number closes because strong makeouts where the girl's tounge in in my throat, lol !!

One time I and my wing were at a busy bar and there was this brunett next to him who he opened, then he moved to my other side, she and I made eye contact and within seconds started making out. He was amazed but I knew that the girl and I had expressed attraction and sexual desire through our eyes and expression.


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So fucking true. People just don't imagine how strong non-verbal communication is.

Forget all about what to say, routines and all that - learn the fundamentals first (tonality, energy, smile, EC, body posture).
When I first got in to the game after reading the game I went on the internet looking for the best openers and routines and what makes them so called Pick-Up Artist so good at what they do, and after a while, I realized that its not what they say that make them so special, it is who they are, it is the way they expose themselves to the world.

So stop going round and round looking for the hottest shit openers and routines online and just attain these principles and you'll see how things turns out wonders for you.

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You have a shared a great law with your fellow students.

The Law of No Action..

I will you tell you now, this is single handily, the greatest challenge we, not as PUAS, but as humans can develop.

A great tool in accessing if you are applying The Law Of No Action, is by asking your self in a moment, "is my surrounding imposing itself on me, or am I imposing myself on to my surrounding?"...

The key is balance between the two, but always follow the question with "what am I allowing to be imposed on me, and what am I imposing on to others"...


There is a lot to be learned from this, and I thank you for bring to our attention


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I learned how to be the shit nonverbally in bootcamp. Didn't even realize it was happening until I get back and EVERYONE notices the Pride.

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