hey fellow p.u.a. enthusiasts. where do i begin?i'll try and keep my problems as short as possible. Going through bad patch at the moment, suffering a bit from one-itus etc. Would greatly appreciate it if you could help me with one or more of the following...
1. I seem to go through periods of unbelievable confidence when i get a few k-closes under my belt over a couple of weeks, confidence sky-rockets,but always seem to regress back to Approach anxiety eventually/ weeks of not kissing any girl.Confidence is very up and down. Alcohol bit of a crutch for me.
2. Two women in particular that i dated in past and fancied, playing on my mind.One woman i see out,have seen with other guys,kind of knocked stuffing out of me. Other woman seems to have moved on too, judging by facebook status. Bit resentful of women,lost interest lately in talking to girls, because of these women.
3. Wondering about by pick up style.I generally don't give much value to girls, not wanting to d.l.v.. You could describe me as being a bit arrogant in my style, trying to act part of 'player.' Rapport building, comfort building not strong points. Clash of conscience going on, I don't want to appear like a.f.c.,but don't want to seem like too much of prick either, difficult to get balance right.
4.when i have my shit together, i find it easy to k-close,then number close, then organise day two, meet her for day too and both of us have great time,keep texting/m.s.n., but attraction fizzles out.
5.seem to be soft-hearted when it comes to women i like,get cut up over them,but don't show it.not wanting to be a.f.c. i don't really chase them if i get hint of disinterest (women i've kissed before).

Hey Jay l,Im just going to answer the 1 st. one.

Its natural for intensely high feelings to fluctuate.

I mean,you can't remain on high forever.

So,I may go 3 weeks feeling like a social king,kiss closing,#closing,etc.
Then the following week,I can't stand the thought of going out socializing.

I just see it as something natural.

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