1) You have to show her how good you are, if you're rich and nobody knows it - who cares?

I don't have to show her anything. Feeling as though you HAVE to show her is needy and validation seeking. Also, what does being rich have to do with anything? I'm not after gold diggers.

2) Don't DIRECTLY say you're great, EMBED them into DHV spikes in stories or in speaking.

Again, I don't worry about DHV stories. Why should I? I tell stories to have fun and self amuse. I don't need to prove I'm high value, that again is validation seeking.

3) "If you're Alpha people will just know it" This is completely wrong, you somewhat convey Alphamale characteristics through actions and words.

I never said anything about being alpha.

4) If you convey disinterest, she'll want to convey interest more because she's fighting for you back. She may SUBCONCIOUSLY know you're interested in her, but if you show her conciously that you're not that

The theory behind direct game is that showing desire for the woman will increase her desire. A recent scientific study bascially proved that theory. As long as your not a chode and you show desire for the women, it will increase her desire for you.

5) You're not trying to convey superiority - you just want to be the guy that makes her days better and you want to increase your value. Nobody should be BETTER than each other in a relationship - nobody wants to feel inferior.

I agree.

6) On the contrary, when you approach a girl, your value is lowered. YOU HAD TO APPROACH HER, therefore you're lower value. This is why you're trying to gain attraction and value through stories.

I didn't HAVE to approach the girl. No one is holding a gun to my head and forcing me to approach. Second, I'm not trying to gain attraction, I just assume attraction. I'm also not attached to any outcome, I just have fun. Third, if anything, approaching would raise your value because you did something most other chodes wont do, approach. When I approach I dont worry about value though, my mindset is that our value is equal.

Listen to any Mystery Method videos and you'll know what I'm talking about.

Look outside the box and you'll know what I'm talking about.

I read it today, most of it was nothing new. A decent read for a beginer but he really doesn't explain specifics just general idea's. The most value I got out of it was how he explained pattern recogntion, and the value of going about things with least effort.

I've been in the field long enough to know that if your talking to a girl she knows the deal, & even if you can play it off as the cool friendly social guy and go in under the radar you lose the ability to flip a lot of attraction switches & you are going to have to shift at some point & it only makes it harder IMO.

I just think go strong and direct at this point, and the mindset of the selector. That's where I got the value of his pattern recognition. Yeah shes been approached 100's of times so learn how to walk up strong in a way that the top 1% did.

So, like all of Gambler's work, this is just a remix of Mystery Method with different words right?

Anything new?


And i don't mean something like "be Mr Stealth" instead of "indirect aproach".