I don't post here often, I don't really identify with most of the PUA community anymore, but was thinking about something interesting so I wanted to see what the PUA community thought about it.

One of my home-girls recently asked me out to the Ballet. Do you guys think this means 'gay friend zone' or do you think this means she's interested?

Little background. I am art guy and most of what I do revolves around art or entertainment. I have been to other movie with her in that past.

She is smoking hot and a really funny intelligent girl, but she is in my circle of friends and I am not generally a fan of inbreeding so I don't game her at all.

When we get sauced sometimes it gets flirty but nothing past that.

Recently however she has definitely been looking to hang out more and last night she texts me ask asks me if I want to go to ballet and that she has the ticket already.

I have no real interest in gaming her or anything, so this is more a just for question.

I am always interested in seeing what you psychological wizards get out of this.

So the question remains:

I am in the "gay friend" zone or is she trying to push it further?

Cheers

The Chef.

To be honest, it could go either way. It seems like it's up to you to decide if going to the ballet will make you stay a friend or not, i mean she obviously sees something in you to wanna hang out right?

But you also said you aren't interested in "Inbreeding":roll: so ypu don't wanna game her, is this really because you think you're already in the bitch boy club?

If she said it as a joke, then it means she thinks you're gay.

But if she is actually going to the ballet and wants you to go with her, I am almost 100% sure that she is interested in you. She is clearly showing interest because she doesn't want to go alone and she chose you to go with, when she could have chosen any other guy.

As for the gay thing, it is hard to say for sure. But I'm pretty certain you aren't her 'gay friend' unless you are very openly flamboyant and have reason to be considered 'gay'.

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I usually say something like "I'll make you a deal, I'll go if you give me a back massage"