ok so a few months ago i used to get invited to sick parties, i used to wake up and have a massive amount of txts on my phone from girls tellin they wanna hang out, and from my friends askin me for help or simple drunk txts haha, i remember going on a date with a girl and gaming another via texting at the same time,

last break between semesters wasn't to bad, but now i feel like my life is in the shit, i wake up to no txts, i stopped talking to the girls cuz i jus got sick of em or they lost their attraction to me, and lately i've only been hanging out with a few of my friends,

basically i feel like my life is in the big time shitter right now....
any ideas on how i could change my situation? or is this normal for someone who goes to work and college?...

Keep socializing and the party invites will start to flow in again.

And stay positive.

If you're in college, a lot of activity happens in the fall term as people are sorting out the social pecking order. There's constant flow of new people so the deck gets re-shuffled every fall.

What you described happening to you last term is The Game. That's why we're all in it - cute girls, tons of parties, drunk dials and texts, etc. If you're "getting sick of it" you need to ask yourself if you're up for this or if you just want to get a good catch and coast thru the rest of college. I tell you right now that's what I did and I regretted it. First year I was all over the place dating girls getting laid a lot and having a blast. Then I got oneitis and was with her for the remaining 3 years, almost got married to her.

Getting back in the game takes nothing but a little initiative and some crafty gamesmanship. Pick your targets well - girls you know will get invites to a lot of parties and are good social proof. Just don't go after them desperate and needy for invites. Be excellent and the invites and texts will start flowing again. When they come, just be ready for them.

Its not only normal for college goers,its normal for any guy in the community.

Its impossible to be on a high all the time.

Its impossible to never get rejected nor blown out of set.

Its impossible to have 15 HB calling you every single day for the past 2 years.

Its impossible to stay attracted to the same 15 ppl over the course of 3 years.

The point:we all go through this. At least I do.

1 moment,I'd be on a social high for 3 weeks. Then,I'd say to myself,"WTF am I doing talking to these chiccs or these ppl?"

You'll get over it naturally soon and start getting bacc into your more socialite status.

No big deal,its natural.

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If i hang out with a bunch of people that are more boring than me, I'll be the life of the party, and never go home empty handed... This is rarely the case. I play the drums.. thats about it.. nothing going on for me.. So when I go out, i make damn sure i AM the life of the party, even though (in reality) I'm not. It's perception and frame.. The more you let these negative thoughts consume you, the less results you will see.. so try not thinking about any of that, and this weekend go out, and get the results you want.