I’m an AFC who has been in the game for about 6 months. I’m a pretty good-looking guy, good personality, good sense of humor, and I can keep a conversation going. I study mostly natural game (Vin Dicarlo and Gunwich) and I have become a firm believer in the power of projecting a sexual state, because I have had success with this.

Here’s my problem:

I typically get a few IOIs early on in an interaction with a girl but then the IOIs become more and more sporadic or stop altogether. Despite the decrease in IOIs, we will continue to have good conversation, good rapport, and share some laughs. We basically have a friendly vibe going on where there isn't much attraction or sexual tension. Girls lose attraction but they don’t lose interest. I can tell that girls want to feel more attraction to me. They like my personality, they think I’m good looking, etc. They want there to be sparks but they just aren't there. It's like I'm pretty good at getting a mild to moderate level of attraction from a girl but can't take it any further. I seem to be going through this same pattern with almost every girl whether it's on a day 2, talking with a girl I already know somehow, talking with a girl I’m already friends with, or with a girl I just met at a club/bar.

If I can get over this hump I think my game will really take off. With the mild to moderate level of attraction that I am currently getting from girls my attempts at kino are unsuccessful and I can't even enter a sexual state. I find it much easier for me to enter a sexual state when a girl has a higher level of attraction for me. The few times recently when a girl has been more attracted to me, I have been pretty successful at entering into and projecting a sexual state, increasing sexual tension, escalating kino, k-closing, and then some. How can I get girls to feel more than just a mild to moderate level of attraction towards me?

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Interesting point and natural game comes across as good, something I want to study too.

Are you adding good levels of kino? K closing in good time? Not chasing the women?

If your not doing any of those, they could be reasons. I'd also be interested in more experienced gamers views.

Good luck.

Missing windows of opportunity to escalate can be a turn off, so your lack of kino might be where you're losing them. Even if you don't get into sexual state immediately, worry first and foremost about breaking that touch barrier.