And I use ACTING quite literally, Im doing that with this girl right now on purpose. I was kidding when I did so but she seems to be taking it seriously, seems to have a positive reaction.....

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K-MAC,

I've never seen or been in a situation where acting jealous has scored points. Frankly, most of my marks eventually end up telling me that they wish I would get jealous some times. Thats the key really, girls believe jealousy means interest and when you are not jealous all of their alarms are firing. Eventually its huge turn on that you are not jealous but then it gets to a point where they crave you to get a bit jealous.

They love that feeling (albeit inertly). Don't ever get jealous my friend, and don't ever get jealous my friend, don't even act as if you are jealous. It shows insecurity and it confirms her control of the relationship.

You only play around about jealousy after you have asserted how you never seem to get jealous. Then when she talks about it to you and tells you a statement such as "man, you never get jealous; or "sometimes I wish you WOULD get jealous", you can play around about being fake jealous. Then it's like teasing you're doing to her since she asked you for it. Drives them nuts.

Check out a few of my posts and you'll see exactly why I say this.

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Acting jealous/being jealous = Rewarding her for bad behavior. This will get her to continue putting up jealousy plots.

A very small amount can be a good thing. More than that and it becomes a turn off.

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ok now I know, thats a no no....

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I can tell you right now, don't be seriously jealous, joke around that and finish the line in a short time, that produces a VERY POSITIVE REACTION INTO HER, because that demostrates your high value being funny and your low interest being involved into a long relationship with her.

The bad thing not being jealous at all and don´t talk about that, could show to her that you are a VERY JEALOUS PERSON that never show power, are unsecure and lacking in social skills.

GO JOKE AROUND THAT AND SHOW HER YOUR POWER BEING FUNNY.

^^^yeah I was joking, but Im not so sure if she knew I was joking or not.

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Definately a DLV. Not only that it destroys your chances of being able to show that you are willing to walk away, so your value is dragged even lower. This is of course in the attraction and comfort stages - Once she's your girlfriend being protective and maybe a little jealous should work to your advantage.

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The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.

Listen to Enforcer, Same thing I was saying and he's a pro at this, don't be jealous. It just puts you in a bad position.

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well like I said I was purposely doing it....in a joking manner, she seemed find it funny as well.

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Just because she finds it funny doesn't mean it's good. Funny can some from intellegent and witty conversation, but it can also come from a clown. Don't perform for her, remember that.

By acting jealous you are giving her higher value and what's more you are actually demonstrating to her that she has higher value in your eyes. Basically you are accepting her frame.

Personally I would never do it deliberately. There are HB's out there who will respond to this I am sure, but even if they do respond you will have destroyed your value. She will like it because your "so sweet" or because it's "so cute" when your jealous, then next thing you know she's sleeping with the first guy who makes her work for his attention.

You will roll your own way dude, we all do - but I would think seriously before you continue deliberately implementing jealousy.

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The Enforcer.

The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.

but mild concern in a developing relationship is DHV.

"yeah, i would probably care if something happened between you two, but I trust you"

/"I have nothing to worry about"

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