OK, i'm having trouble getting a day two with a girl i ran game on at a party this week, i'll give you the situation and then any and all help is appreciated. goal is top get a day two, from which i know i can make something happen.

I met this girl at a party last week, lets call her HBSceneGirl. She's an easy 9, knows everyone on the club scene that she frequents and obviously knows her value, not in a stuck up way, but in a used-to-getting-hit-on kind of way. I run really tight game at the party and she constantly comes to find me anytime i roll off and speak to someone else. She kino's me a bit and throws countless IOI's. It comes across in conversation ( while i was throwing out a random afc inoculation against anyone else at the party who happened to speak to her) that she likes to play games with guys, drive them crazy and just genera run the girl version of game on them.

Long story short, i time bridge to something the next night, end up staying at the same house but sleeping on opposite couches ( there's alot of people in the house and i didn't feel i could pull off any kind of close there) where we have a fair b it of conversation where this girl actually shows her vulnerable side when everyone is asleep after all the " i play games with guys" outer shell . I take this as a sign that my game has broken through her defenses so +1 to me. I'm 100% sure she wasn't screwing with me at this point, i've been blessed with very high social intelligence for sincerity even before i got into game so i'm sure things are going wedll.

Next morning i drive her to the bus station, she gives me her number ( her decision, didn't ask for it) so we can meet up before the thing we time bridged to ( which was a club night, so not a one on one day two). She looks like she wants to hug me but i don't react and she leaves, i'm still running with the idea that she is VERY used to guys being into her and being dismissive will give her a challenge that she's never had before. I phone her later because she said she had little to no money on her phone, we arrange to meet up after i finish work.We meet up with some of her friends, some of mine and at a bar about an hour before we're heading to the club.

Now here lies the begginings of my problem, i've had about 6 hours sleep in two days and just worked for 9 hours before going out, i'm dog tired and can barely speak, never mind game. Due to this we have minimal conversation, she kino's me a bit, for instance she knows all of my friends but when she walks into the bar to meet us she comes to hug me even though im sitting down. We chit chat a bit but i honestly don't have the energy to be lively and interesting, we head out to the club.

Because she knows everyone, she has a million people to talk to, which is fine by me, but when she comes back to our group i can barely hold conversation. a
An hour or so in i decide the best plan of action is to tell her i'm going and arrange a day two by phone. I absolutely KNOW i should have time bridged again, but i couldn't come up with anything in my fatigued state so made my excuses, she hugged me for way longer than is normal for someone you've just met a day ago and i head home. I sleep for the best part of a day and then decide to deal with setting a day two.

For some reason, when i text her, i'm still thinking i don't want to be direct because i know how high value this girl percieves herself, so i send a text with a bit of call back humor and then " I feel kind of bad that i was so anti social because of my sleep deprivation so if you want to hang out during the week give me a text or a phone".

Now, looking back on that text i feel it was weak as fuck. I didn't give her a day or place to meet up or any reason why she would. I Haven't had a reply from her on it at all. There are several reasons that i can think of

1. She still has no money in her phone
2. I messed up with my low wnergy fatigued state on our semi day two and she's
no longer interested. Although she still seemed into me and dissapointed that i was leaving when i said goodbye that night

3. The text was too weak and didn't require any real commitment to return it

4. She's screening me and will text near the end of the week to see if i text or phone again before that. I was certain i'd gotten through her game playing by having an even stronger game however.


My options as i see them are as follows:#

1. Don't text or phone her again. This feels like it's leaving too much up to chance. on one hand if she's screening me then it will make her get back in touch, if she has no money it will also make her get back in touch when she does. On the other hand, it could be that i just need to send a more solid day two setup text or even possibly phone her ( as she may have no money to reply anyway).

2. No matter what i do im screwed because she's not interested. However, i honestly don't see it and can't run with that assumption because if i do i'm losing an opportunity

3. I phone or text her with a solid day two plan, probably a few days from now. The problem with this is, if she still hasn't replied then i'm lowering my value to get back in touch before she does, it makes me come across as needier than she is. However, if i actually have broken through her games and defenses then texting or phoning with a direct " We should go out on x day to x place because i find you interesting" style text should work because it means she's already attracted to me and it could actually be that SHE is worried about getting rejected because i'm coming over so dismissive and she's not used to dealing with that.


Thoughts opinions and analysis welcome.