I met this girl the other night through my friend. She has the most wicked personality and her twisted type of jokes were amazing. She wasn't bad looking either, she would be a hb8.5.

I know this feeling I am having because I had the exact same one back in high school. There are crushes guys get on girls, but then there is also the type of feeling where it goes beyond a crush and you can feel it in the pit of your stomach. I'm scared because the one during high school lasted about 3 years and ended up no where. As sad as it sounds, it's the kind of attraction where I would prefer a hug from here than having sex with like many different girls. I have oneitis and I know it. What kind of techniques do you guys use to get over it? Shes making me go crazy and I'm sitting here trying to smack sense into myself!

game her bro. get hugs, get laid.

haha I'm scared if I game her, I will get a lot more attached. Pickup is a game of odds, a better pickup artist has greater odds, but there is still that percent of failure which I wouldn't be able to handle with this person.

She was giving off IOIs like mad but I feel like a horrible person trying to pursue her knowing I am into pickup. It's a bit confusing but I cant get my words together.

Maybe I need to masturbate or something fuck!

from what i think ur saying i had a similar experience and let me tell u what happened.

So this hella hot chick with a great personality started talking to me the day after we got back from a camp we went to. we didnt talk much there but figured out she lived 10 min away from me. Anyways i had the mentaility, whatever i'll game her for practice, but as a result she was female gaming me haha. I started wanting her like crazy and she started wanting me giving me IOI's like crazy. I wasn't able to realize why, but i felt bad pursuing her although i really wanted her.

What ended up happening, we were kind of in an open relationship, she hooked up with a guy in front of me to make me jealous and it worked. we got into a relationship but the same feeling was there. she said i no longer cared and broke up with me and got a different boyfriend and thinks of me as a male slut.

Lesson learned- if you like this girl go for her. itll hurt less if you get rejected before these feelings get any bigger. I could get hella psychological on ur ass but its better to act out then hold things in and watching from the outside. have the mentaility, if i get rejected, I WOULD HAVE BEEN OFF THE SAME IF I DIDN'T TRY except the learning experience. You'll be glad you got rejected than missing a great "chance".

If you really like a girl, you might feel a little insecure around her. give it all u got, and make friends with the fear.

This is great. I see exactly what you mean. Just reading this alone is helping me get my shit back together. Thanks a lot man!

I'm starting to get my appetite back too! I haven't eaten in a while

Be a man. There are far worse things than giving a girl a bone. That's why birth control was invented though, so game her good with plenty of touching, hugs, kisses, and give her some good lovin'. Or simply go find/fuck ten other women and this one particular girl will not seem so magical and you'll game her easier.

-Chicoman

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