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PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 7:07 pm 
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Truthfully dude, you need to forget trying to game your LJBF. You were put into that situation because of the character you displayed (AFCish) and chances of you getting out of it are slim to none. If you want to attract this girl, I suggest you change yourself, or you are going to continue getting put into the LJBF zone by other girls.

I suggest use your LJBF as a pivot, and I assure you that you'll pull more opportunities with her as a pivot than you will on your own. If your friend decides she wants more, she'll make those moves and you'll notice them.


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2. We talk about how un-normally close we are And how we're not going to be able to have a working romantic relationship while we're that good of friends.
Wait, what? Are you kidding?

Ok, I'll grant I'm not the expert here... but MOST people say that any long term relationship that WORKS involves being good friends in addition to passion.

Maybe your problem boils down to agreeing/telling her you can't be romantic because you're close friends.

Maybe change that bit of the script, and talk about how people who are so close make the best lovers in the end.


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2. We talk about how un-normally close we are And how we're not going to be able to have a working romantic relationship while we're that good of friends.
sorry I meant with other people. like if I wanted to date another girl, LJBF would get jealous.

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2. We talk about how un-normally close we are And how we're not going to be able to have a working romantic relationship while we're that good of friends.
sorry I meant with other people. like if I wanted to date another girl, LJBF would get jealous.
Also, just because you make her a pivot, doesn't mean you have to bring her into the PUA world or give her knowledge of it. Her just being a prop is good enough.

Seriously though, stop trying to get yourself out of the LJBF zone. By trying so hard, you make it apparent to your LJBF that you are still trying to win her over. Just be a friend, change your attitude (AFC) and see what happens. Stop talking about how close you two are or marriage or other related shit. You are that "nice guy" just in case you didn't know. Nice guys dont' get laid, the guys rough around the edges while still having manners do.


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2. We talk about how un-normally close we are And how we're not going to be able to have a working romantic relationship while we're that good of friends.
sorry I meant with other people. like if I wanted to date another girl, LJBF would get jealous.
Is she jealous that another woman is taking her lover or her friend? A woman would get jealous of a dude if he's taking her BFF so don't read too much into this. My guess is she's getting jealous that another woman is taking her best friend away which is putting a cramp into all of her activities/social life.


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do not grab her, dude, no. ok secual tension isnt real its a usless illusion that could get you into some trouble, what would be wrong with just asking her to hang out at your house or her house? be like hey beutiful wanna hang out sometime, and if she gets creepy be like "you know just regular hangin out haha im really good at xbox" say it in a dorky way and what ever you do, be proud of yourself. shell be attracted to you for the sence of joy you radiate, so dont tell yourself short by looking down on yourself and boost yourself esteem to the hilt. i can show you how to do this.

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I don't think I'm friendzoned too hard to come back out of it because
1. She knows I'm a sexual person.
2. We talk about how un-normally close we are And how we're not going to be able to have a working romantic relationship while we're that good of friends.
3. We can snuggle up and fall asleep together, we link arms in public. (extreme comfort)
4. We talk about sex.
5. Whenever we go out she has that "wow you're like no one else/ i've never done anything like this before" face on and truly has fun
6. We talk about getting married, what our wedding is gonna be like, baby names when she wants to have kids... ect.
7. We are completely comfortable with each other.
..and after ALL that, no action
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Maybe your problem boils down to agreeing/telling her you can't be romantic because you're close friends
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Is she jealous that another woman is taking her lover or her friend? A woman would get jealous of a dude if he's taking her BFF so don't read too much into this. My guess is she's getting jealous that another woman is taking her best friend away which is putting a cramp into all of her activities/social life.
DUDE... you're delusional, you are DEEP in the friend zone, REALLY deep, and you start developing onitis

I was in that situation years ago, I though I have this "relationship" without sex and I will boil the tension or whatever, and i was burnt HARD..

you are in the friend zone,

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJquF2M4bA8[/youtube]

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but thats you... do you want to be him??

stay friends, don't try to game her, enjoy her company and forget about it, then maybe she will come to you herself

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hmmm. alrighty i guess i was blinded to it thanks guys for snapping me back into reality. I hate abandoning a project but i guess i will to keep the friendship. thanks everyone

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lol that video is funny. but yeah im off to meet 10 new girls and then have some fun this weekend. i think i just end up wanting the girls i cant have so ima be more careful in the future. thanks again for helping me realize how far in the friend zone i was. its hard to see the situation from an outside view when your that deep in.

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wow ive never seen those ax commercials before but all of them a hilarious

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hmmm. alrighty i guess i was blinded to it thanks guys for snapping me back into reality. I hate abandoning a project but i guess i will to keep the friendship. thanks everyone
I was in that situation, and the whole world tried to snap me out of it and couldn't, in the end I slept with her once, but she stop talking to me after. Next time I saw her was 5 years an a lot of women after... and she wasn't that interesting anymore

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