Hey guys I'm going out tonight with my LJBF and I've been trying to think of ways to bust out of it. I've thought of the options and I feel like the best way would be to just create mad amounts of sexual tension. I know that there are more ways to do it then are coming to mind. so any ideas would be great. so far i have:

1. Grabbing her by the back of the head and acting like I'm gonna kiss her then whispering in her ear. (If anyone has done this before, is it better to pull a one liner and make her laugh or kind of steer the convo in a sexual manner?)

2. Building large amount of kino on the floor.

3. Insert here

I want to be able to make her cringe with desire to the point where her emotion overflows her logic and she's compelled to kiss me.

any help would be greatly appreciated. (keep in mind we're gonna be in a noisy club.)

Thanks guys,
-Nemosaurus

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

One thing is to flirt with other girls in this situation. Be careful though if you leave her alone guys are gonna hit on her and youve got to be prepared for that. Whether your ok with that or if your gonna amogg them. Id say do a little of both

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dont hit the rotweiler

hmm i've never had to AMOG in a loud club. how would you go about this? Just ignore the guy and grab the girl? or directly approach the guy and start making him give up his value?

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

how about YOU kissing HER ???

or you don't have the balls?

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

wow so much hostility lol. Is that serious? why would i be coming to the forum claiming to be a PUA if i was afraid to kiss a girl.

I tried it once she pulled the LJBF card. so now I'm going with this plan. I never said i wasnt going to kiss her i just want to build enough sexual tension until i know she'll respond to it well.

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

no no hostility, sorry if you got me that way

so u DID try and then she pulled the LJBF, then best way is to use social dynamics and game girls around her, make her jealous, and then create sexual tension like you said

on the other hand, why try so hard, question is it a long friend zone situation, or you just escalated too fast, then a freeze out would be best, be her friend but still make her jealous by gaming girls around her

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

I totally agree with StreetLight. If she already pulled the LJBF when you tried to kiss her, then a direct approach to building sexual tension is not going to work.

You have to change her thinking to see you as a sexual creature by gaming other girls around her.

If you go direct, it will most likely result like you are smashing your face against a brick wall.

Ha it sounded bad sorry. Umm yeah that's what I've been shooting for. Just looking for some new techniques to build up tension.

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

so I Game the girls around her maybe kiss them infront of her. then how do i get back around to her? walk back up to her and start building the tension? or would you do it another night?

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

This could be a long term project. You don't necessarily get out of the FriendZone in one night.

I'm not sure its the FRIENDZONE, the LJBR talk here might only be a LMR, he escalated to fast and jumped on her, but he build comfort, aka, she enjoyed spending time with him but he freaked her when he tried to kiss her, she wasn't ready

Am I right nemosaurus?.. or Do you know this girl for a while and have onitis?

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

No not oneitis I haven't let myself get there since I first started pickup, but there are a bunch of LTR qualities between us. We act like we're dating she just won't let me kiss her. And yes I've known her for awhile now.

I had a great time with her tonight and built a good amount of tension. We both danced with other people but spent most of the night together. We have a two hour drive ahead of us tomorrow and then the rest of the weekend together in my home town.

Ima keep pushing out tension and bring up sex as a topic for most of the car ride. Wish me luck guys. Thanks for the help and if you get any ideas that may help me out post em here.

Take it easy and have a great weekend,
-nemosaurus

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

if you don't kiss then you have no sexuality, what LTR qualities CAN there be?...
youre friends... maybe you don't have onitits but you are friends, wich is not a bad thing, girls can be friends, but I would say that is a hard one.

Just use her as a pivot coz my bet youre deep in the friend zone

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Think of this,if you use her as a pivot,she will then see FIRST HAND how much sexual qualification you have! At first she may call you a player but you must explain that we were put into a social/sexual environment and we are intended to reproduce...so your basically looking for your potention suitor. Later on you say that most girls dont compare to her and that may begin a new journey for you.

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-TOAST

Yeah I guess my views on the situation is a little bit clouded. But we always talk about how close we are, and i've never been this close to anyone else.

LJBF-"Yeah we're like a 2-3 year relationship and we dont have sex anymore."

Nemo- "Wow, I feel jipped on this situation!!"

LJBF "sorry baby, I like how everyone thinks we're dating haha"

Nemo- "Yeah we pretty much are, we do everything together. Im even taking you home to meet my parents this weekend." (We're in college and was taking her to experience the big city life)

LJBF- "Yeah we're so weird"

Nemo- "You better not try to kiss me again i know you're gonna get curious about what we could be." (jokingly)

LJBF- "Ohh yeah we're not having sex this weekend I wanna make a good impression on your parents" (playing along)

Nemo- Keeps the conversation on a sexual vibe for the rest of the car ride.


I kinda like Tattoo's idea and I've kinda been implementing it a bit. Awhile ago we were at this party and she bet me that I wouldn't be able to make out with this girl by the end of the night. I won the bet. So she kinda knows I'm a sexual person. she sees me with other girls.

I'd be a little reluctant to make her a pivot though. She knows nothing about this community or any of the books i've read on pick up. she just hears me coaching some of our friends and thinks I understand social psychology to a good extent.

I don't think I'm friendzoned too hard to come back out of it because
1. She knows I'm a sexual person.
2. We talk about how un-normally close we are And how we're not going to be able to have a working romantic relationship while we're that good of friends.
3. We can snuggle up and fall asleep together, we link arms in public. (extreme comfort)
4. We talk about sex.
5. Whenever we go out she has that "wow you're like no one else/ i've never done anything like this before" face on and truly has fun
6. We talk about getting married, what our wedding is gonna be like, baby names when she wants to have kids... ect.
7. We are completely comfortable with each other.

I hope this helped shed some light on the situation. For now I'm gonna keep building tension with her, keeping the sexual vibe up, staying confident and alpha in every situation, kino, and jokes about us dating.

Thank you to everyone who been posting in this thread. Its helped me a ton.
-Nemosaurus

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Itcha Boi Nemo!