Hey, this is my first post and i was just wanting to get some advice on what i should do in the future if a situation like this occurs again and i'm in a mood where i can think straight.

Earlier in the week we had a party at our flat and invited about 25 friends (and friends of friends) round. Unintentionally, i was the most drunk iv ever been in my life. After i got tipsy, it sort of snowballed and i ended up taking absinthe (80%) etc, so i was a complete mess and this didnt help my situation.

There was this girl at the party (who id only met once before and not really spoke to) who was probs the best looking single girl there and she was pretty drunk as well. We seem to have alot in common (music tastes etc). At some point in the evening she asked if she could sleep in my bed that night. Im not sure if this was an IOI or if she just didnt want to sleep in the messy living room. After that, i can vaguely remember her lying on my bed with her eyes closed starting to dose off. But i was so drunk i couldnt think of anythin to say, never mind do anythin if i had the chance. My first question would be, do you think she was interested in me (im sorry my info is pretty lousy but what im telling you is genuinely all i can remember from this night). And in future, what would be good chat at this stage and how would i take it further.

My second problem was my friend who was at the party who i think she may have been interested in aswell, and he was significantly less drunk than me. When the three of us were in my room at some point and i was playin some music. Me and her were banterin about bands etc and my friend would just chip into the conversation (e.g. aw, i love this song etc). Even though i know his tastes in music and he probs hadnt heard of most of the bands we were listening to. Out of the two of us, i would say he had the best chance of shaggin her that night because he knew what he was doing. However, for future reference, whats the best way to deal with a drunk friend cock blocking you in your own room at a flat party.

We are planning on having several more parties this semester and i would love your advice on how i should deal with girls and my friends when i am more sober.

Thanks for reading and thanks for any advice.

Your first problem was being drunk. From your story, it sounds like even if your friend wasn't there, nothing was going to happen.

Talking isn't an IOI. Her asking to sleep on your bed isn't an IOI. If anything, that was a shit test. She may as well have said "Hey can you give up your bed tonight so I don't have to find a ride home?" Would you have said yes to that?

My advice for next time is this. Tell this friend before the party to be prepared for you to bring a girl into your room, and if you do, to be a bro and not disturb them. Simple, easy.

And don't drink to get more than a slight buzz

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I'm new to all this myself, but my advice is;

Don't ever get drunk. Haha. I'm still reading the game, and I just read a part where Style says Drunkenness and Sarging doesn't mix. Besides, IMO it's more fun watching other people drunk than to get drunk yourself.

Don't mess w/ wasted chicks. It could lead to jail time. lmao

Ok. She seemed genuinely interested in you because you said that you two were
in your room talking about music etc.(your friend too, not important). Somewhere
that night you got her into your room and she was down for it. Good job.

To me it seems like you and her made a connection, and she was feeling you bro.
She asked if she could sleep on your bed to test you, to see if you were gonna try
anything that night with her... meaning... take advantage of a drunk girl.. which you
did not... brownie points for you from her... she digs you even more now.

Seeing how your friend was trying to "get her attention" showed her that "he" was
TRYING TOO HARD, which made her NOT like him because she knew she could have
him as her PUPPET anytime she wanted. Thus, your friend being a dumbass (sorry),
made you more attractive to her because you made yourself "SEEM' not interested
in her ROMANTICALLY... Good job bro.

Now, when you were in bed with her, and she seen you lay down with her... her eyes
WERE NOT FULLY CLOSED (lol).. she seen you... and you DID NOTHING to her,
like try to FUQ her... you earned yourself more brownie points from her...

This girl seems like you can have her if the next time, you don't get wasted, and
you PULL her away from everyone else and have some alone time with her talking
about music in your room ALONE, and ask her what her favorite song is, and then,
when you play it... ask her to dance.. don't matter if it's rock or whatever.. just
ask her to dance.

If she don't want to dance, then just say, well, how does this song make you feel?
HER: blah blah blah.. whiles she's talking, interrupt her and say... "wanna make out?"

This should get the real party started...

She should act kinda shy and giggly which is REAL GOOD FOR YOU... or she will
jump you right there...

If she's the shy type, and DOES NOT run away, or say "NO" directly.. meaning
that is the only word she says and nothing else.. you should move in for the kill
and plant a great kiss on her and go from there.

DAMN.. THIS SHIT IS GOLDEN.. (my bad, had to say it)

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If the HB was drunk, you have to take anything she said with a grain of salt. When intoxicated, girls psychologically(unlike males) tend to exaggerate their feelings. A small IOI becomes a "Can i sleep in your bed" IOI. In that respect, you were correct to not kino, or try to close. (coherently or otherwise)

My best advice, is from now on... raise your right hand, and repeat after me: "I will never again let any substance interfere with my 'A' GAME" No more than a shot of liquor, either as a shot, in a drink, or 2 beers whatever. I Love getting drunk... During the Superbowl this past weekend, I was FUCKED up... However I was NOT sarging. If you are sarging.. No intoxication whatsoever.

Secondly, If you haven't already spoken to this girl since, don't harp on yourself being drunk. I'd tease her for being so drunk at your party. light negging, and brush it off. If the confidence is there, it shouldn't be an issue, though info is a little vague.

Here is what I have to say about the "her being drunk" part...

My friend Amy told me that girls get drunk so they can blame the alcohol when they
sleep with a guy. Girls WILL NOT DO ANYTHING THEY DON'T WANNA DO... DRUNK OR SOBER...

This came from a "girlfriend", so I listen to her advice before I listen to ANY MALES
advice about drunk girls.

If you're asking if I slept with this girl.. sure did and it was great.

Are we still friends.. sure are.. she was drunk, but like she told me, being drunk just
lowers their INHIBITIONS just like it does ours.

But in all actuality. If you want to "date" this girl and not just have a "booty call" girl,
then don't lay her when she's drunk.. all that you'll get out of it is a booty call girl
(if you're good enough for her to want you again and again etc.)..

If you want to have a relationship with this girl, then do the right thing, and wait
for her to be sober before you "game" her.

Take this post however you want to. If you want to flame it, I will not retaliate.
I am just speaking from personal experience. Thanks.

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