Long story short I messed up with a girl but all is not lost we still text! So here is what I need to know is how to improve my text game. I need to basically build enough comfort for her to start hanging out with me again then things should pick up.

Crono: yeah! ill have to make time so we can go drinking. its over due

HB: haha, maybe

i then deflected the convo to not us hanging but drinking in general

that looks like bad news to me. Is there a site or something that can help me with this? any advice would also help.

Text game is padding. There's no art to it, it's just to mess around. It should never be your primary means of hooking up with an HB.

if it's gotten to that point, you already messed up. When a girl doesn't say "yes" she means "no"

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Is she giving any other indicators? If you really want to hook up with her, call her sometime randomly, let her know your around if she fancies a quick meet up because you have a bit of spare time before you go out, adds some DHV too.

Topster made good point:texting should not be the main source of communication.

Women are very flakey when it comes to text & online gaming.

They don't take it that serious. No commitment. If a girl tells you she'll meet up with you via text,she's more likely to flake opposed to talking.

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Damn straight.

Damn straight.

@Chelios: yeah she gives them on and off like leaning in when we talk and making an effort to talk to me and when i did get her to agree to study she showed up alone but super late. Anytime I mention something like hanging out or give any indication of us doing something together I get iods.

I think the problem is that I broke my comfort (escalated to soon) now were in kind of a limbo so that is why I want to know how to be a better texter.

Well I'll be honest, I'm usually good at text game, used to love it, but honestly too, it bores me. I think calling the chick is better. Also let the girl text you last, if you don't text back and she texts again asking what's up, I take that as a big IOI, if she didn't care she wouldn't be interested.

Give it a few days with her, maybe call her then, leave the texts for now.

Well it worked i waited a few days and she texted me to see her (we were both working in the same mall). So tomorrow I'm going to call her about just a quick trip down town.

I always do make sure the girls I text send the last text but ill try not texting in the middle of a convo.

Well done Crono, keep it going man!

Just say your passing by town, style it out. Make yourself look busy, DHV, from what your saying it's working in your favour!

It din't go as well as I had hoped she was already down town with a friend. I made sure to quickly befrend the friend but my target was sorta ignoring me towards the end. I did leave after 45mins (I was busy told them that a girl at work wanted me to come in and another girl told me she wanted to see me).

She asked me a bunch of times why I came to see her when the store I was going to was in the other direction and eventually her friend told her "cuz he wanted to see you" and I had no response. this has happened to me once before whats a good response to that situation?

she did say ill see you Thursday i guess and that's in class but a good sign maybe?

Wait untill thursday man, she's interested, her aksing questions of why YOU came to see HER is an IOI IMO. Next time laugh something like that off, say you didn't come to see her haha.

Tell her you went in that direction because a guy came up to you and said he thought you were really hot. Tell her it creeped you out enough to have to go this direction for a while. DHV.

There is a brand-new book on "Phone and Text Game" from the Love Systems guys that I can recommend:

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@Chelios I did just that and things went well i got a major IOI when she texted me as soon as she got home for help with homework.

@paul I like that ill use it next time

@nevasplus I may check I don't have all that much money cuz I'm going to cali next summer but ill look into it.

Tonight when bad with my target. I managed to get major IOIs (I'm now officially "mean") from her friends. Latter in the car when we driving to my place we talked that we both need to watch a movie, Repo. Then I was like

"If you want I have most of a case of beer we can get (the two friends) watch the movie as long as you dont mind donateing your room."
she said

"I dont know" (wich means of course I DON'T, NO). i responded with

"whatever"

after that i did a freeze out and we got to my house like 10secs later. when I went to leave she said a very perky
"have a good night" I grunted bye as I was getting up.

How do I fix for this my jealousy angle doesn't seem to be having the desired effect. My time at school will be winding down soon so I have about another two months before its over with her.