Hey guys,

Okay, so I seem to have an axviety disorder, don't wanna get too TMI on you guys, but a shitty upbringing is definitely the cause.

So I've been poppin the Xanax at clubs to sarge. And of course they push the happy-hour drinks on you which messes it up more.

But I'm telling you guys, I'm straight, smooth,, and speak w/ all the confidence in the world when I'm using it. It's just I don't remember much. (Xanax does that)

I've talked to so many MPUA's who've said , "naw man, it's you, you gotta just get though it w/out the drugs." But I'm just so f'in locked up everytime.

I even chatted up this hot 8.5 in a club, who, after a few minutes asked my name....I mean, I was all over the place w/ talking/subjects, etc. After a while she said, "well, nice meeting you.

Keep in mind, I've studied ALL the inner-game material there is out there, but this is someething biochemical, I'm pretty sure.

Have any of you ever taken pills to calm you down for sarging, etc?

Do you think there's something I could be doing better?

Thanks so much guys, this forum has been my inspiration.

- Rob

Unintentionally when I sarged a few months ago, I was on hydaocodone, and i felt pretty smooth. However, i was probably a bit more dull and boring. I try to normally be the center of attention, and the life of the party, and always on top of my game and of my mind. But generally when I'm under the influence of anything it only diminishes your effectiveness.

But I mean, if it's prescribed, and you are worse without it.. I'm not sure. All i know is you just need to be YOU. which sounds cheezy but, If it's interfering with your personality I would say, try your best to sarge without it.. and push through it.

But I'm no doctor.

Just experiment pushing yourself without it. It cant be good for your game that you can't remember anything. Maybe find a prescription that doesn't have as many side effects.

Why not talk to your physician about possibly using an anti-anxiety medication with less side-effects or that is not quite as strong. At the end of the day I think you want to keep as much of your own personality intact as possible.

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Regards,

The Enforcer.

The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.

I've done all those, SSRI's like zoloft, lexepro, and celexa fuck with ur dick, no sex drive, u live in a blur. Xanax and any benzo's really,

Problem is, it'll fix ur anxiety, but if u take it 2+ days in a row, you're lookin at heroine-level withdrawal.

Drinking amplifies it and turns u into a major freak-ass.

We've tried everything for 4 years, the benzo's are all that work, otherwise I'm this tense ass guy who's afraid to even make an offhand comment to a DUDE about TRAFFFIC!!!!!

But the benzo's come with a price, and I've done all the inner game out there. It just doesn't do it.

If anyone has any alternatives, I'd greatly appreciate it.

- Rob

Drugs and booze mess up your game. If a doctor prescribed them then you should probably take them but DON'T get mixed up with booze and script drugs. Your game will go flat in no time. You might feel better but you'll get no where.

If get good at pick up you may find that you need less of the drugs to begin with.

If the drugs make you game better.....then that means its all in you and you just need an extra push(for you its the pills)

Now get ready for this.....try yoga. I know it sounds "unmanly" but think of it this way,if a female finds out you do yoga,it shows your willingness to connect with your inner self "YOUR PUA SIDE" and maybe you can teach her a thing or two....and somehow it leads to sex.

You make sure she knows that you are a party animal "social being" but at home and other places you are taking care of yourself (giving you sexual points)

Try using less and less of the pills. Crush them and only take 3/4th of it for the next moth, after only take 1/2 the following month WITHDRAWS ARE GOING TO HAPPEN SO STRENGTHEN YOURSELF MENTALLY.

If all else fails,just go to a rehab and say ur an "addict" and get pointers on how to stop using them. But dont let it fuck with your head.

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-TOAST