Hey guys. Have a question about the best way to build comfort and rapport. I was out last night in the club with a few friends and i opened up a good few women. At the end of the night i only had 1 kiss close and no number close and the kiss close chick wasnt even that great.

Anyway one thing i definetly need to improve is after i open i need to keep the target interested. Last night i was mainly using the opener "is it better to text or call when you get a number". A lot of the time i felt that the target was happy to answer the question, give her opinion and leave and i was kind of just forcing the conversation on.

So if anybody can give me some advice on building comfort and rapport and keeping the target interested that would be awesome or post a link of some good previous posts on the topic.

Cheers

It all comes down to connecting with people on a level that is just real. If your at a club a good mindset to have is I'm here, having a great time, talking to everyone so if you open a set, I wouldn't use routines and canned lines but they do work. Again this causes you to feel like "Forcing" the conversation as you eluded to. Just connect with people.

A conversation is about BOTH people giving something to it and feeling like they are interesting, but not the prize. There is a really fine line where you can show interest in a girl, but not be a door mat. The best way to do this is with Negs and Push Pull.

So anyways about comfort and rapport, here are some specifics.

1) Eye contact
2) Smile
3) Entusiasm
4) Interesting Unique questions and conversations about life, memories, dreams, etc.
5) If you have fun, she has fun women draw their state from men.

So go in there, chat people up, bring MORE energy then they have and you'll be golden. Comfort is my favorite stage because its comfortable, it shouldn't be tough you should just be yourself, learn about the girl, ask her questions about herself, put your input in but DON'T be AFC or just another guy.