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Hey, thanks for asking!

As expected she bailed on our date on sat, with an excuse of her best friend's bday. She was very apologetic, but still, not really a legitimate excuse in my eyes. I let it go, but called her last night, and just asked what was up, and for her to be straight with me. Her response was she just doesn't see things working out, because she is an hour drive away and will be really busy with her graduate class she is taking and won't be able to keep making the drive down to see me (I live downtown, she is in the suburbs and I don't have a car). Now this I think is legit. I can deal with that whether or not it is true (if she really wanted to see me, technically she could... she comes downtown at least once a week for class, and sometimes on weekends to go out). But yea it wouldn't make a whole lot of sense, so I'm not going to dwell on it. Gonna move on to better things.

This is the second chick to bail on me in the past week though, so I am clearly not doing something right. I think it's something to do with escalation. Yea I can hold a good conversation and I went on multiple dates with both of the girls, that seemed to go really well, so it's not like it was just a quick coffee then they blew me off. But I think I need to escalate things a lot quicker to build more of an attraction. I don't even know if that makes sense, but I do think I need to escalate quicker...
I am also having problems with escalation with 8's and 9's...no problem with the 6's and 7's.....

On a side note, it would be sweet if Driz and Chelios were in the same city at some point and met up to game and wing. You guys ever come to Denver?

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Afraid not man! I'm from London in the UK. Truth is though once I up my game, hopefully within the next year i wanna go abroad on a proper sarging mission and explore!
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Hey, thanks for asking!

As expected she bailed on our date on sat, with an excuse of her best friend's bday. She was very apologetic, but still, not really a legitimate excuse in my eyes. I let it go, but called her last night, and just asked what was up, and for her to be straight with me. Her response was she just doesn't see things working out, because she is an hour drive away and will be really busy with her graduate class she is taking and won't be able to keep making the drive down to see me (I live downtown, she is in the suburbs and I don't have a car). Now this I think is legit. I can deal with that whether or not it is true (if she really wanted to see me, technically she could... she comes downtown at least once a week for class, and sometimes on weekends to go out). But yea it wouldn't make a whole lot of sense, so I'm not going to dwell on it. Gonna move on to better things.

This is the second chick to bail on me in the past week though, so I am clearly not doing something right. I think it's something to do with escalation. Yea I can hold a good conversation and I went on multiple dates with both of the girls, that seemed to go really well, so it's not like it was just a quick coffee then they blew me off. But I think I need to escalate things a lot quicker to build more of an attraction. I don't even know if that makes sense, but I do think I need to escalate quicker...
I am also having problems with escalation with 8's and 9's...no problem with the 6's and 7's.....

On a side note, it would be sweet if Driz and Chelios were in the same city at some point and met up to game and wing. You guys ever come to Denver?

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Afraid not man! I'm from London in the UK. Truth is though once I up my game, hopefully within the next year i wanna go abroad on a proper sarging mission and explore!
I would love to come to UK..how do they like American white boys there? Would be fun, man!

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I think it depends where you go, some like and some don't, but with the accent I think you can definitely game, it gives something to talk about for her automatically. I once randomly got speaking to an American guy from Chicago in a club not so long ago, we sarged together and he was successful.

Definitely come some day. What do U.S girls think of Londoners?
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Accent is definitely a HUGE peacock. My accent is Norwegian, or Scandinavian and here in the states, almost every party/club, every night, i'll get multiple girls open me, and comment on the accent.

My friend Pedro, is the best PUA I know, and his accent also accentuates his game.

Guatemala... what a place..

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I feel your pain about the texting flakes... the problem with texting is that just how us PUA's can cut the thread through any medium, a girl can cut the thread at any time, and it's especially easy for her via text, because she just "skips" the message. for instance, you ask her out, she can just temporarily not reply until you change threads and jump back on.

Me and this girl have been talking for some time about having a south park marathon at my place, and we both talk about it, but when it comes to actually setting the date... she flakes every time, and then jumps right back in, when i cut the thread and start a new one. like she just magically didn't exist for the 5 min gap.

so text game is just a bridge. it's great, and allows you to really hone in on the perfect remarks (especially if you are notorious for thinking of the perfect thing to say 2 seconds too late) but it's essentially unreliable, and impersonal.

Try getting her to call you.. if there is enough interest there, she WILL comply.

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I agree with the text flaking, personally I use text to build some kind of comfort, some girls don't like jumping into phone calls. After a day or two, I'll advance onto phone calls, don't have to be long, brief and sometimes keep them guessing with things about you. She'll be interested and setting up a meet will be easier, because it doesn't have to look direct as a text would, you could stack in conversation like if your talking about what you both like doing say "yeh that's kool, I do that myself, maybe we should try it together sometime, or I bet I could show you so and so"
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I think it depends where you go, some like and some don't, but with the accent I think you can definitely game, it gives something to talk about for her automatically. I once randomly got speaking to an American guy from Chicago in a club not so long ago, we sarged together and he was successful.

Definitely come some day. What do U.S girls think of Londoners?
Awesome, I totally agree with Coffee, the accent will already get you in. the only comments I have ever heard about UK guys is that they are too forward sometimes, but that was from two girls that are friends, at separate times....but if you have game, no problemo, I believe....If I ever get to the UK, you will be contacted, for sure!

I think I have realized something about text gaming for me....I think the funny/cocky thing is not affective much because they can't see the non-verbals...tough to figure out what to do in replacement, though....

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You can still neg via text. But you are correct, you don't have the added luxury of being playful with non-verbals...

All that means, is when you do tease/dhv/cocky-funny/whatever.. It HAS to be solid, and well thought out. Instead of immediately responding to the first thing you think of, try taking a minute or two, and thinking.. what is the BEST most BADASS PUA thing i could possibly say. Most times i'll think of something kind of funny immediately, but honestly, if I think harder, i can find something better.

I'm guilty of not doing that too..

This is an example of when I did.

HB: Tell Me what color!

Me: What color what?!

HB: Hurry Chose like... French or....?

Me: I assume nails? French.

HB: French it is. My hair smells delicious right now!

Me: I beg to differ.. ;-)

Me: I also changed my mind.. French isn't going to do it for me..

HB: Make up your mind!

Me: So bossy...

HB: You're weird

Me: we'd make a good match then, Too bad..
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you can be playful and cocky funny. but you have to make sure it's mild.. and make sure to utilize smileys! ;-) :-) :-/ :-p
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You can still neg via text. But you are correct, you don't have the added luxury of being playful with non-verbals...

All that means, is when you do tease/dhv/cocky-funny/whatever.. It HAS to be solid, and well thought out. Instead of immediately responding to the first thing you think of, try taking a minute or two, and thinking.. what is the BEST most BADASS PUA thing i could possibly say. Most times i'll think of something kind of funny immediately, but honestly, if I think harder, i can find something better.

I'm guilty of not doing that too..

This is an example of when I did.

HB: Tell Me what color!

Me: What color what?!

HB: Hurry Chose like... French or....?

Me: I assume nails? French.

HB: French it is. My hair smells delicious right now!

Me: I beg to differ.. ;-)

Me: I also changed my mind.. French isn't going to do it for me..

HB: Make up your mind!

Me: So bossy...

HB: You're weird

Me: we'd make a good match then, Too bad..
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you can be playful and cocky funny. but you have to make sure it's mild.. and make sure to utilize smileys! ;-) :-) :-/ :-p

Haha, honestly, my first reaction was, "what the hell is this girl wanting/looking for?" Nice handling....

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