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guys I think some people got a bit lost by seeing the term Asian... from South Asian.. I am guessing that by South Asian the guy actually means a country like India, Pakistan, Bangledesh, Sri Lanka... i.e. all basically Indian guys... or as the Brits would call it "Asian"... but not actually East Asian...
if they guy actually meant like Thai or Fillipino then just ignore my post
I would think that in general white girls would prefer East Asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese, etc.) guys to Subcontinent guys.
as for guys that want Asian girls (in the North American terminological sense... i.e. East Asians) well that's pretty simple, just be over 1.80m tall, that's what these girls dream about .... height is very important in those cultures, presumably because it is so lacking in general there... precious commodity. People in the west would laugh and say 1.80 is pretty short (I mean it's like 5'11" or so) or at least average height but in East Asia it is considered quite tall. And according to the black dude I guess it is better to not be black in this case... I have talked to certain girls from certain countries (not gonna name them) and they have said things like "I don't date monkeys" when I asked them about dating black guys, so yes if you are of certain minorities then in some cultures you have an uphill battle. But that's just life.
Hey bud, I am from a south asian (pakistani) background, but born and raised londoner - I have never dated a girl from my own south asian race strangely enough. All my lovers/girlfriends have mainly been white with the odd black here and there. Its about your inner-game, when I started out, I found it easy talking to girls from my own race as there was a degree of familiarity there, but the more women I met, the more my game improved, and ultimately coming to the realization that a woman is a woman, no matter what race she is, is the right attitude when it comes to approaching women of all races. Dont be intimidated by what you think they may think of you.
Sure, I agree with some posters that social norms and cultural factors can decrease your chances, as stereotypes tend to prevail - in the UK, it is not a huge problem, but I keep my wingmen multi-racial, (i.e., a black guy and a white guy) - that gives off a better impression than going in a pack of 6 guys all of the same race. From my experience, east Asian girls are more difficult to seduce, but not impossible, and South Asian girls also prove difficult due to social conditioning, as they mainly seek commitment from you before you get premission into their pants.
Dont let the race thing impact your game, in fact, see it as a bit of an opportunity, as you if and when you go to a bar/club or venue where you are by in large the minority, you are already a peacock and you can really develop it further and attract more attention. I usually play cocky funny with girls, especially white girls, because although I dont have to show a girl from my own race that I am a 'threat', at times, I have to demonstrate that to a white girl, because of all the negative stereotypes that the western world has of arab/indian/pakistani people.
Peace players.
CHAT
