in long term relationships, the real compatibility only comes with simmilarities.

with that in mind, If you are looking for a long term/soul mate, than you shouldn't change your avatar, because changing it would only hinder your relationship. In a long term search, though that delves into philosophy (personally you don't find long term relationships, they find you) you should only look for those people who's personality and style ALREADY match your own. otherwise the relationship is built on a lie.


But thats not the PUA way. It's not the girl. It's the process..

In the game of pick up, you should find what works for you, and not vary.

You don't have to be two things at once

nor would you want to..

My point is, in JUST pick up, your avatar doesn't matter. I make the goth reference because that had happened to me.. She was into me like crazy.. initially that is.

But as time progresses, we realized that we had nothing in common. but it was irrelevant, because i was not looking for a soul mate, or a wife.

Opposites attract in the short term, but don't stick.

the point is, no avatar change is ever needed. if you are just using the game to get laid, than it has no impact on your game. whatsoever. I have just as good of chance picking up a goth with who I am, as a super goth with make-up and the works does.

If you are looking for a girlfriend/wife/soulmate, than you definitely want to find someone who has common interests to YOU.

is that making any more sense?