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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 4:13 pm 
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Hi
I met a girl in a club a few weeks ago, recently been in different cities so not secured a meet up but hopefully that will change this week as we are back in the same city.
We added each other on Facebook too but one drunken night I stupidly blocked her not knowing it would delete her from my friends once I unblocked her! I did this to stop myself sending drunken messages, stupid I know but I wanna work on resolving it! She hasn't asked yet but did not accept my new friend request but has replied to text messages.

If she asks why I deleted her, whats the best response? I'm thinking along the lines of 'It was too dangerous to have u on my Facebook' to create intrigue. Any other better suggestions or ideas on how she will respond to my answer above and how to get back on track as I secretly think she likes me a lot less since I did this. I can tell by the much fewer texts and the tone of the response. Should I just tell the truth?

Any help please!
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 9:17 am 
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If you tell her : 'It was too dangerous to have u on my Facebook'

She will probaly not want to be your friend or arounds... because #1 she would feel scared and #2 she would think you are a lyer or trying to hide something.

In my opinion I think you should tell her that you blocked on her accident because you didn't want to drunken message her, because in your past you have done this and lost contact. And you don't want to lose contact with her because you really want to get to know her.

Boom your back in. Probably better than before.

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 11:46 am 
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I came from party pretty wasted and i deleted few ppl i didnt know from my friend list and in mistake i deleted you... I noticed day after...

Think of something... doesnt have to be my example :)


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 2:46 pm 
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I agree with these guys. Just be honest about it. I'll never understand why guys feel the need to make everything so uber-mysterious. You have to be human sometimes, especially if you actually dig the chick and want to make something of it.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 6:13 pm 
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Lol man... why would you be honest if it can only hurt you not help you in this situation?

Girls play games with men more than you can imagine... So if you play it more mysterious you are more interesting... Why some guys go crazy for some chicks?! Kuz they dont let them to do/have what they want at the moment ;)


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 12:48 pm 
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Lol man... why would you be honest if it can only hurt you not help you in this situation?

Girls play games with men more than you can imagine... So if you play it more mysterious you are more interesting... Why some guys go crazy for some chicks?! Kuz they dont let them to do/have what they want at the moment ;)
If your scared to put your heart on the line, then you will never learn to love.

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 9:15 pm 
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Lol man... why would you be honest if it can only hurt you not help you in this situation?

Girls play games with men more than you can imagine... So if you play it more mysterious you are more interesting... Why some guys go crazy for some chicks?! Kuz they dont let them to do/have what they want at the moment ;)
If your scared to put your heart on the line, then you will never learn to love.
its about the game, not about the love... besides, you can love many ways :)


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 10, 2010 1:33 am 
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Lol man... why would you be honest if it can only hurt you not help you in this situation?

Girls play games with men more than you can imagine... So if you play it more mysterious you are more interesting... Why some guys go crazy for some chicks?! Kuz they dont let them to do/have what they want at the moment
When you LOL at the mans comment for saying be honest it comes off as disrespectful.

Not everyone is going to have the same opinion as you and thats cool.

I know you don't mean to be disrespectful, but when you type LOL when someone is not trying to be funny it means you are laughing at them. Weather or not your intention is to come off rude is not the issue. The issue is that you do come off as disrespectful. Please don't laugh at other peoples comments. Its rude.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 10, 2010 10:07 am 
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I get your point :wink: ... its more like a buzzword, you use it even when you dont have to... talking about LOL ;). Im not trying to be disrespectful, indeed im here to help if i can and get help if ill need it ;).


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