Hey guys,

Just wanted to get some opinnions on a conversation via Txt mssg, that I had with an HB8.

For starters, she goes to the Gym that I work at. I met her through one of the trainers that I know personally, and she introduced me to HB8. At the time I was pre-occupied with my Work duties that I only chatted for about 2 seconds. HB8 works out with my trainer friend every Friday, when I work(Which is in the next 2 hours). I saw her around, said high picked up a coupld IOI's without me even spitting game until I found her on Facebook through my trainer's page. So, I added her and she started talking to me over the chat system on FB. I number closed with ease and began texting her a couple of days after. Since then me and her have been constantly flirting, I've been giving her negs and compliments back and forth keeping chemistry alive and the conversations stimulating.

Now for the "iffy" message....

(The messages prior were very flirtatious, and she flirts right back. I keep it fun and playfull):

Me: lol I hate Math.

HB8: I ove math but its frustrating sometimes

Me: :/ me n math bump heads. lol I hate it.....But I do need a tutor

HB8: Sure you do lmao XD

Me: lol Yeah, if only there was somebody....**whistles**

HB8: Yea i know right...lmaaooo

Me: There goes that innocent girl routine lol

HB8: What? What are you talking about?? Lmaoo

Me: lol Sarcasm..Are you gonna work out tommorow?

HB8: Yes! I feel so fat! I need to go to the gym lol

Me: lol I'm gonna be there to train with the punching bags.

HB8: Thats fun lol XD

Me: Yup. You might see me there if your lucky

HB8: Oh yea cause you're so cool! lol

Me: lol..ah, yes...the Sarcasm again.

HB8: Haha Maybe

Me: lol it's cute when you flirt like that hahaaaaa Brb.

HB8: K..Ps im def not flirting, i'm just nice

That right there knocked me off guard......I mean idk wether to believe it or brush it off as another tease....Hence my predicament....the only thing I knew to respond after I was done doing what I needed to do was:

Me: Yeah, I would hope you wouldnt be

I mean, its really not an issue for me at this point seeing as I have other girls to attend to, but I just wanted to know what you guys thought....

Dude, you're going to let something like that throw you off? Of course she is going to downplay it like that. It's very rare when a girl will actually come out and say "I like you." So far, it sounds like she's into you. Don't let that silly little comment throw you off. Get her on a date.

Well, I think it's safe to say that my chances with her are completely shot.....I got to work(the gym) late....about an hour or so :X.

When I get there, my co-worker/close freind is talking and laughing to another co-worker/close freind. When I get in on the convo they naturally fuck around with me and tell me it's private...like I give a fuck anyway? I clock in and make my way over to the HB8 who completely looks the other way and ignores me. My natural instinct was to keep on walking past her and say fuck it. When I get back, both of my freinds are laughing and they finally tell me what's up:

"Oh man, when she came in asked her where you were. haha!"

I didn't undderstand, so I asked him to elaborate.

"Yeah, when she came in I asked her,'Hey where's Mr.LongBottom?' Then she said,'I don't know'. with some wierd face. Then I said,'Oh don't you guys hang out all the time now?'.

When he told me that, I didn't know wether to kill him or laugh......I was pissed, but amused at the same time because it was completely random and badly timed if her little Txt was meant to be serious.

So, the whole time she was there she avoided eye contact, as did eye. But I caught her glancing my way real quick every now and then.....

so my question is: Should I confront her about it? or just Let this one go and move on?

Ask her if she's put on some pounds lately, she is looking rather round

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I mean ..you should go see what's up , set things straight for yourself instead of wondering. just go over start a conversation in the gym ..see how she responds.Sometimes girls just seem a little cold because they think you turned cold .maybe you came across as a little to forward with the flirt comment . All i am saying is she saw your intentions and responding like that because she isn't going to let you play her like that. I am more subtle with text game .

reminds of the time I was gaming this girl , mouthed of to some guy about it and then the dude added her randomly on face book and asked her if she liked me , and told her a bunch of untrue shit . That totally ruined my shit with her , and now when i see her in school its just awkward because she is not the most outgoing .

So just be outgoing one time with her and see how she responds . you got nothing to lose

Ok, So I tried to talk to her again, but I had to text her because she only trains on Friday's.

So the only basic way I knew how to break that "awkward" ice, was to apologize for my freinds comment and tell her that I thought she was pissed at me. I didn't want her to think I was talking shit behind her back, or bragging. Her response was rather surprising:

HB: No not at all lol I was just focused xD he is funny and he looks like a man whore, just saying, no offense...lol

Me: (Mind you, the last thing I wanted to do was keep talking about the jackass) Ok. It's no offense lol

HB: Just making sure cause I dont want you to think Im a jerk lol

Ok...So since I figured that I had nothing to loose, I went ahead and introduced the flirt line again just to see if she gave me the same type of response or if it would seem aggressive in any way and this is what happened:

Me: Naw, I dont think you're a jerk.....just a flirt lol

HB: I'm just nice

Me: W/e you say slick.

HB: Haha I feel so fat right now! -__-

So, I basically cut the conversation on my end and she still responded back. I'm thinking ok, maybe her little comment was playful after all and she was just messing around before. If she still wants to talk to me, she must not think I'm some kind of creep.

Me: lol, you should work out with me one day.

HB: Why?? Do you want to have the satisfaction of making fun of me?!

Me: lol Maybe? haha.

She texted me back and I cut the conversation, and I'll text her when I have some free time for a work out...or possibly for dinner

What do you guys think? Should I keep this girl or move on?

and from Game perspective, Critique me please.....I feel as though I've been slacking in that department the last week and I need step it up.